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I just found out today that no one except 1 person likes me at my work.

This hurts me because I never intentionally wanted to be that person. I try to constantly help everyone but no one seems to see the good I do rather than always the bad.

I can never win.

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  1. Julia Bryce Julia Bryce says:

    you are at work. do your job and do it well. help when you can. you are not there to make friends anyway.

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  2. Work isn’t a social place…it’s a place of work…do your job…do it right…don’t bother with what everyone else thinks or does …like I said…your there to work…not socialize

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  3. Don’t work to gain friendship and likes. Go to work to make money and gain advancement.

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  4. How does one know that only ONE person likes them? Was each person asked??? This seems like a lot of assumption. For me…I don’t care. I come to work and do my job and go home . Everyone or anyone liking me is a nice bonus

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  5. It was like this when I worked at soft moc.

    As much as these people are saying you’re there to work not make friends,being comfortable around your work mates IS important.
    Working is stressful enough without people being rude to you.

    Sorry this is happening to ya. You being bothered by it is valid.

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  6. Win Chan Win Chan says:

    You can’t make everyone happy and should not make your life revolve around making others happy. You aren’t good enough for others? Make it your goal to rise above them. If it causes enough of a problem at work then silently look for something better.

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  7. I know exactly how the OP is feeling. But I’m not at work to make friends. I’m there to do my work. If that pisses people off – too bad. We aren’t at a social club. Nor are we in high school.

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  8. Who shared that tidbit of gossip with you? Not a friend obviously….and probably not true….just go to work and hold your head up and be yourself

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  9. You are at your work to do a job and earn a paycheque, as long as you are doing your job, being kind and true to yourself, you shouldn’t worry about what others think. I know it’s hurtful that people don’t like you but are these people really making any real contribution to your life for you to be so upset? Worry about the important people in your life liking you not co workers!

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  10. Well I would wonder what’s up ? Just be blunt and ask can’t hurt. Then do some reflecting and move on. We all have fixable characteristics!

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  11. Ange Freer Ange Freer says:

    Personally, I could give two shits if my coworkers like or dislike me. I speak my mind, and I speak the truth. If that is offensive, too fucking bad! If that is a justifiable reason to dislike me, that’s your right. I refuse to kiss anyone’s ass and change who I am just to be liked. You might want to consider using the same strategy! Matter of fact, I had a coworker whom I do not know on a personal level outside work, or even a working relationship with hand me a pin that says, “basic bitch!” I laughed. To this day I have no idea if she was trying to be insulting. Frankly, I don’t quite care. She couldn’t have been closer to the truth if she tried. One things for sure … she’s got lady balls, and I respect that!

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  12. I have empathy for the OP. It must be a stressful situation going to work knowing that you are not liked by anyone and your not part of the team. Get out of there quickly before it destroys you mentally. I have a good friend who is going through this exact scenario and it is ruining her life. In the meantime try to be strong

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  13. People are sheep and they follow others. Be the leader not the sheep and ignore the haters.

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  14. Chris Dumais Chris Dumais says:

    Ric you post this? Hahaha

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  15. Jes Woodman Jes Woodman says:

    Randomly bring in cookies or donuts .. And smile .. Ask people how they are feeling and listen while they tell you .. A little kind kindness goes a long way

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  16. People at work are mean. They’re a bunch of hypocrites. They’re also never happy no matter what you do or how hard you try. So, you’re not the problem, they are. I see that everyday at work. They all seem to like each other and laugh when they’re face to face, you think they’re best friends, but they always backstabbing each other and criticizing those same people they were just laughing with! so don’t feel bad, trust me.

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  17. If what you’re saying really is true, and you know for sure that the majority of your co-workers don’t like you, chances are good it’s for a valid reason. When there’s a majority, all you need to do is find the common denominator (you in this case). It’s also highly likely you already know, or at least suspect, the reasons why they feel that way.

    Instead of blaming them or having a pity party, start being honest with yourself.

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  18. You go to work to do your job and get the heck out of there. Dont mix home life with work and vice versa. You will drive yourself nuts

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  19. Tom Edward Tom Edward says:

    Grant is that you buddy ?

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  20. It took me over half a decade and a pay cut to find my AMAZING team. Working with people you respect and who respect you is very important. If you want to stay, I would take steps to find out what has frustrated your team mates and decide if you are capable of changing those things. If you are not then I would start a job hunt. It is not worth being miserable. Find the team that you fit in, and ensure you are being a good team mate!

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  21. I had someone tell me I had to minimize my bathroom breaks. Couple weeks later, I quit to follow my dream to run my own business. Best decision I ever made. I no longer have to ask for time off. Or worry but being 5 minutes late back from my break. Or have a jerk boss over me.

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  22. Doris Heck Doris Heck says:

    Want some cheese with that….

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  23. The only person who needs to like you is you. The rest can …..

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  24. I have a hard time fitting in also and don’t have a lot of friends at work but i am there to work not make friends so I try not to let it bother me. As a capricorn i want really hard to be liked by everyone but I jave had to accept that not everyone likes my brand and i am ok with that…

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  25. Esther Moore Esther Moore says:

    In my experience unpopular people tend to lack self awareness. They don’t see how their behavior affects other people. Do you show genuine interest? Do you contribute to the conversation? It’s amazing how differently people perceive you when you shift your focus from how people are perceiving you to pursuing genuine connection. It’s also been my experience that people want to like each other and want to be nice and friendly you just have to give them the opportunity. Everyone feels lonely and insecure at times.

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  26. Gord English Gord English says:

    before you wonder what people think of you,ask yourself why you give a fuck

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  27. Your perception, whether fact or not tells me you may need some additional support. I would suggest seeking out therapy to just give you that extra help through this and have a professional to help you peel back the layers on this so you can do what you can with self reflection, boundaries, healthy ways to assert yourself and your rights and to become your own advocate and rebuild your justifiably, crumbling self esteem. What a tough situation, but you can get through this with someone rooting for you like a good therapist. Hang in there.

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  28. Mary Hopper Mary Hopper says:

    You need to go to coda

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  29. Cindy Dato Cindy Dato says:

    I go to work, do my job and then go home. I don’t really care if I make friends or not. Sure I say hi and how are you. But these people aren’t friends, I have my true friends. I’m not in highschool anymore, and neither are u. I’m sure you have other friends who care for you.

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