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I got my bf fat…

I’ve been dating my bf for 11 months now and I’ve been kinda insecure in dating from past abusive relationships… (my own issues I know) I’m really in to baking and my bf will eat anything I make him lol…

I started baking a lot more and noticed his belly getting sooo much bigger. He actually started buying bigger clothes lol XD.

I keep cooking and baking now because I want to keep him happy and keep other women away from him… I don’t know if it’s bad and wonder if any other women have done this to their men or am I the only one??

I also think he looks better now that he is bigger. Winter is coming and I like cuddling his big belly… #sorrynotsorry!

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  1. Amanda Nic Amanda Nic says:

    My husband is the same. He has gained weight over the 9 years together and well i love it. No he is not obese but he no longer so bloody skinny where you see his bones.

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  2. Tyler Seguin Tyler Seguin says:

    This is fucked up on a few levels..

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    • That was my thought too. It’s fine to accept someone as bigger and what not, but to deliberately fatten him up to keep him from being desireable to other women is beyond insecure….it is a form of controlling abuse. There is such a thing as changing how you bake to keep the weight under control, the man happy and learn to trust him instead of pouring your energy into distrusting every other woman out there.
      The other issue is that with size comes a higher potential for heart disease, stroke, diabetes…..so get help for your mental health issues and don’t put his health at risk to satisfy your insecurities.

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    • Tyler Seguin Tyler Seguin says:

      A real Hansel and Gretel story is unfolding here.

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    • But yeah. She is not well.

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  3. My bf has put on weight in our time together, personally I love the extra meat on his bones. I think given baking is something you’re doing because you like it, not to be manipulative or cruel, then what’s the big deal?

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  4. I only baked n cooked hoping he would have a cardiac.

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  5. Jayne Redux Jayne Redux says:

    IMO when I see a man, that has been with a woman and has gained weight….it signals tome that he is happy and content. Maybe I am wrong…but that is my thinking!!! 🙂

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  6. Keep your hubby happy, when he’s a little chubby, he’s a happy pappy!

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  7. Does he have control of his own elbow?? Bake! give half away to friends.

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  8. Jesus chubby chaser, keep sticking that cake in his gob.

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  9. Lol Insecure much but at the same time this was funny two thumbs up for fattys!

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  10. Jocelyn Bear Jocelyn Bear says:

    There’s a TV show in the ID Channel called Deadly Women, you should check it out!

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  11. we eat healthy enough
    but my man is a lil beefy n i absolutely LOVE him this way i cant keep my hands off him

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  12. Irene Bakker Irene Bakker says:

    What about beer bellies

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  13. Baking keeps you happy, so keep baking. He has gained weight as long as he is healthy, no big issue. But as for your issues due to old relationship, make sure you talk to him/someone. My man loves that I bake/cook for him (when not dealing with morning sickness). In fact, his brother (and boss) are jealous of him because of my baking.

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  14. This is a bit messed up. You want to make him fat so he doesn’t cheat. You don’t know if that’s bad? I don’t know if it’s bad but it’s sad. If he’s going to cheat he will cheat no matter what size he is. M or Xxl. Go talk to a therapist about your “past” issues. If this is how insecure you are now and it’s only been a year…..

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  15. El Staplen El Staplen says:

    how incredibly manipulative. I hope he wises up and dumps you

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  16. He can control with he eats, and no offence if he wanted to be with other women, nothing you did or do would change that.

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  17. Angela Budd Angela Budd says:

    I bake for my husband too and he definitely loves it. But he is not with you because he has a bigger belly. He isn’t bigger because you bake for him. He’s bigger cause he’s comfortable with you. He hasn’t left because he loves you!! HE LOVES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE !! Remember that and don’t let the past abusive relationships control you (they do even if you don’t think they do) It is good to speak to someone and get help regarding issue. I have and will need to for a long time. I need to trust the love my fiance has for me too. I’ve been abused too. It’s hard.

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  18. Joe Spence Joe Spence says:

    A fed man is a happy man

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  19. Jason Ellard Jason Ellard says:

    Well Pauline we can’t be all as perfect as Rachel!!!

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  20. Jason bwahahahahaha

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  21. freeze it, it doesn’t have to be eaten all at once

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  22. Jes Woodman Jes Woodman says:

    and how would you feel if he started bringing home fattening food for you and making you gain weight to make you unattractive to other men .. its really selfish and not how you treat someone you love .. why not trust him that if he loves you he wont stray no matter what size he is , or your size for that matter .. you can still bake , just try for healthier options .. and maybe he can share with his brother and boss .. you wouldn’t want him to end up with diabetes or have a heart attack because you want him chubby ..

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  23. *LOL* you’ve hooked him with your mad skills in the kitchen. You can try using sugar substitutes like Splenda. You must make one mean pan of brownies!

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