Happy Birthday lil Buddy!
Happy Birthday! I miss you and love you. I understand you are still too young to read this but I’m putting it out in the universe, maybe you will get the truth one day, which you deserve and will make you understand that you are loved.
Knowing your mother you may be spending your bday with father 3,4,5 or more but you need to understand two very important things:
1) your biological dad loved and loves you very much still. You were taken from him, he did not leave you or give up on you; your mother took you from him and used you to inflict pain, suffering, hardship, and actually destroyed his life to the point I am not sure if you will ever see him again or if he will recover. He still loves you very much and misses you also. Your mother didn’t do you any favours or give you fair chance at life by doing so.
2) I took you and your mother under my wing, I got you decent home where you didn’t have to sleep on a concrete floor in an unfinished basement. I loved your mother very much. I still love you! I also didn’t leave you or give up on you either!!! You and your siblings were taken from me also, and again to inflict pain, suffering and hardship. You were taken from your healthy, stimulating, engaging, loving home and even pulled out of school to move you into a hillbilly hellhouse full of drugs, booze, parties and transients. Your mother has tried much harder to destroy my life than your biological father’s life and she has failed at that just like she failed at being a good partner and parent. The only thing she has succeeding in is traumatizing you children, disturbing your lives, exposing you to the bottom feeders of society, and taking child abuse, neglect and parental alienation to a whole new level. I have no ‘right’s to you but I will come rescue you and your siblings one day soon.
Your mother is not a normal person, she is pathological and predictable the when not impulsive. Blake, you need a father, a good one (not some fat hillbilly or a tinder date); I provided for you when your mom and dad could not and would not – one day I hope to be dad again, coach you (your mom pulls you out of sports because she is too lazy to commit to taking you), mentor you (give you guidance, knowledge, skills), teach you (whatever you want even 10 languages), be your best friend and love and care for you – which you all deserve and long for.
You deserve the truth, respect, love and to be treated with dignity and as a child (instead of being neglected, entertaining yourself, used as weaponry, a bargaining chip, govt transfers and subsidies).
Happy 7th birthday lil Buddy! You are more loved than you will ever know and more than anyone, including your mom, will ever tell you. Love your real Dad.
P.S. I know your mom is a difficult person, an abusive person and an egocentric without morals, and I am no longer around but listen to her once in a while – she will get upset, stressed, take it out on you kids (if no man is around to berate and belittle) and maybe even hot sauce you again.