It’s Not Your Decision
[Warning: Potential trigger content]
It is ridiculous that people say suicide is selfish and that the person that commits suicide doesn’t think of the people they are leaving behind.
It is selfish of those people to think someone should continue living their life for other people when they are so unhappy. They are living for themselves NOT for you.
And you should think about how much time you actually spend with that person or reached out to that person. Why do they only matter after they are gone and not when they were alive. Quit calling it selfish and let the person do what’s right for them. We all should be allowed our decision whether we have lived enough or not.
Some people make this decision after lots of thought and decide they are done and that is THEIR choice. Some people have chosen this calmly and rationally, whether you want to believe that or not.
Maybe some people aren’t in the right place when they make that decision but if you are so mad they committed suicide, then you should have cared enough to be more present in their lives when they were alive.
If you choose to blame someone for that choice after they have died, then that is on you and you are only thinking of yourself because you never thought of them in the past.
Its not selfish choosing how to live or end your own life!