Kind of Lost
i am so reluctant to ask questions here because of the keyboard warriors and trolls, but I am going to anyway…what the hell?
My dad is dying and I am having an extremely hard time with it. My dad is and always has been my best buddy. My dad was the one I usually turned to when I had big things to deal with, but his health is rapidly declining. So I am feeling a little lost. Since his diagnosis I have been lucky enough to have friends and family members who say they are there for me, and I totally believe them, I’m just not sure what to do. I don’t know what I need, or if I need anything. Not sure where to turn, or who to talk to, or even what to say, Can anyone tell me what I need? What I should do? What have you done in this situation?
I know lots of people think it’s dumb to ask questions of complete strangers, but sometimes you get a completely different perspective and/or something you wouldn’t have thought of at all. That’s why I am putting it out there to ‘strangers’.
Thanks in advance to those who truly want to help.