The mother in law did not have him there
Hello again! So thank God I talked to my hubby and didn’t just call my brother in law’s po, he was definitely not there, my hubs had a nanny cam set up that I didn’t know about and I saw for myself that a friend and her baby came over and that’s it.
He must’ve dropped the cat food off before we dropped off the kids. My brother in law is trying to get his life together and while I could very much forgo having anything to do with him, he’s her son and my spouses brother.
That said he’ll never know where my family lives or where my kids are going to school. He is allowed around kids with the parents present, I’m not gonna block my kids from seeing the rest of their family but yes he has to keep a good distance from them and I will never take my eyes off my kids at gatherings but I don’t do that anyways.
Thank you to the helpful people that commented, good bless