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So like my boss grabs my ass like out of joking and I don’t mind it’s like attention but say like he fires me should I go sue him for sexual misconduct and ruin his life career marriage and reputation?

I’m so torn.

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  1. Grabbing a woman’s ass is not a joke!!!

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  2. Kole Dupe Kole Dupe says:

    If you really had a problem with it you’d already be in the process of getting it dealt with! Or your a floozy who will take the attention and then ruin another persons life either way it’s not right and he damn sure shouldn’t be doing that

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  3. More like a made up paragraph to get people frothing at the mouth.

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  4. Sounds like this was written by a guy trying to sound just like a young woman.

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  5. Christa Forsythe likely

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  6. Suddenly don’t like the word like

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  7. This is real proof of what the Metoo movement has turned into. It used to be about giving power to women who have been raped and or sexually harassed.
    According to Alberta human rights Sexual harassment is UNWANTED sexual behaviour by one person towards the other. After reading this is sure sounds like this is wanted sexual behaviour.

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  8. this is obviously another troll trying hard to start a big discussion. So, like let’s not give him the satisfaction

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  9. Lyn Hessels Lyn Hessels says:

    Anything hard about telling him nicely but firmly (then and there ) this is not acceptable behavior? By not saying anything, he’s going to think you’re OK with it. Some guys are stupid enough they have to be told.

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    • Amanda Jones Amanda Jones says:

      The OP said they like it. They like the attention.

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    • Lyn Hessels Lyn Hessels says:

      Amanda Jones ya saw that. The post is confusing though, as if she feels like her work skills are not enough to hold a job. Sounds like she would prefer to bait him until he fires her then sue him rather than risk her (lousy) job and deal with the issue so many women experience. I think she needs a lesson on maturity AND self confidence.

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  10. Like SMH

    Welcome to the world of “triggered attn”

    Get a life

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  11. Like a total troll?? Like…

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  12. Ange Freer Ange Freer says:

    Your boss grabs your ass, and you don’t mind because you like the attention? This entire situation is WRONG on so many levels. Your omission that you’re okay with the “joke” because you like “the attention” is BEYOND fucked up!

    WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?

    You’re basically enabling and encouraging his predatory behaviour with your willingness to play grab ass with the boss.

    Have you no self-respect? Women are constantly victimized and intimidated by male bosses because of women like you. The attention seekers.

    Frankly, you disgust me!

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  13. ? Is it sexual harassment if you admit you like it? It’s not just sexual harassment because you were fired.

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  14. So let me get this straight… your boss gropes you, you like it, don’t ever tell him to stop, probably encourage it by laughing, smiling and by not telling him to stop and you are planning your cash cow for when he fires you and want to ruin his life? You little girl have some serious issues! Ruining someone’s life when you play the game, plotting your cash cow makes you just as bad, if not worse than him! Grow up before karma kicks you so hard in the ass you wonder what happened! You are playing games with intentions of destroying lives, you need some serious mental health help.
    Just a side note, what happens if his wife goes psycho on your ass? If you destroy her life, she really would have nothing left to lose for destroying you! Just saying…

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  15. Lodge complaint now why wait till you get fired? Any physical touch is not accepted!

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  16. Maja Black Maja Black says:

    Just don’t go on judge Judy, she yells at people who use the word like. 🙂

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  17. This isn’t a serious post or was written by a dude. I have had my ass grabbed at work and it was humiliating and I cried. I’m going with 100% dude who grabbed someone’s ass wrote this. I bet she laughed it off in humiliation and now he’s worried what if she speaks up.

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  18. Right on Valerie. The Me Too movement has gone way too far.

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  19. No one should be touched inappropriately by anyone without consent. Hopefully this is a troll post just to get us going today. If it’s real the OP needs to tell the boss it is not ok and report it! Shoutout Moderator-Bonnie.

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    • Jenn Jerebic Jenn Jerebic says:

      You know it’s a troll post… don’t kid yourself half the crap you guys post is bullshit

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    • I think most of there posts are interesting actually. I think this one though was clearly someone who doesn’t want to admit to what he’s done or is accused of doing and is hoping for some Facebook sympathy.

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    • Katy Yorke Katy Yorke says:

      Jenn Jerebic but you like it because here you are! Jenn, there is no way to tell if every post is a troll post. But I can tell you with out any uncertainty whatsoever that MOST of the posts are genuine. Sure they seem outrageous at times, that’s the beauty of anonymity. You can say what’s on your heart and people won’t know who you are.

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    • Jenn Jerebic, no one is actually forcing you to read any of the posts on Shoutout! If they offend you or bore you, you are welcome to direct your attention elsewhere. Have a lovely day. Shoutout Moderator-Bonnie.

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    • Jenn Jerebic Jenn Jerebic says:

      Shoutout Edmonton oh I do keep scrolling often however when BULLSHIT RAPE post like this are made people tend to stop and say something

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    • Jenn Jerebic lol why do you even follow the page?
      Gives you something to rage about?

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    • All posts on Shoutout are meant to get people to respond. They respond whether the topic is true or not. This is what social interaction is on a site that allows anonymous posters. Shoutout Moderator-Bonnie.

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  20. Is this edmonton confessions again?

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  21. You said “like” so much I think this is fake

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  22. Obvious troll is obvious.

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  23. Jenn Jerebic, every post is going to create an opinion or evoke an emotion. If you want to read 100% factual content may I suggest a fictional book. This is the internet after all. Most people know that you can’t believe everything you read online. Shoutout Moderator-Bonnie.

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  24. Jenn Jerebic Jenn Jerebic says:

    Shoutout Edmonton so let’s post a fake help story ??? That’s what I don’t get clearly not everything is going to be real I do kno that thank you. However as an admin it’s your duty to moderate the amount of bullshit you post. 1st red flag – “ I kind of like it “ 2nd red flag – “if he fires me should I press charges ruin his career and marriage “

    If it was unwanted she wouldn’t “kind of like it”

    Nor would be be so willing to ruin his life and this shit is why we have PEOPLE WHO ACTUALLY GET ASSAULTED are not coming forward or speaking up because of shit like this…

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  25. Like don’t give him a reason to fire you and then like you should enjoy having your ass grabbed (plus more) like for a long time.

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  26. You must look after yourself. If you don’t no one else will. Start documenting and saying no!

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  27. Kyle Urban Kyle Urban says:

    It depends on, like, why he fires you.
    But if you don’t say something, like, now, they’ll wonder why you’re only saying it like later, and that’ll ruin the whole like, validity.

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  28. You should say something now. Or forever hold the peace.

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  29. Cindy Gillis Cindy Gillis says:

    Like your boss should NEVER like touch you in any sort of uncomfortable way. That’s like totally like wrong !! You need to like tell someone before it like happens again. Maybe you should like video record it or like something

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  30. A long time ago, a male that I worked with only spoke to my breasts. One day he appeared at my desk. I sat down, put my eyes on his crotch and spoke to him that wAy. Once our conversation was done, I looked up and said “pretty disconcerting isn’t it? Yes, he replied, Sorry and always spoke to my face after that. I looked after it myself and didn’t have to run to the politically correct police to fire him or press charges.

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  31. How ridiculous….you don’t mind, but then want revenge if you’re fired?….Now this is the problem with society today!! I am all for the “me too” movement if it’s legitimate…..this is not!!

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  32. Well ‘if you don’t mind’, then its the end of the story. He has no respect for you and you allow him to disrespect you.

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  33. Jenn Jerebic , how exactly is one to determine if a post is fact or fiction? If you wanted to submit a post to Shoutout yet it didn’t sound like a valid story, how upset would you be if it wasn’t posted? Everyone has their perceptions when they hear or read a story. No one is judge and jury. This story could be truth or lie, who knows? It certainly got your goat. Again Jenn if you aren’t happy with the content of Shoutout I’d like to remind you that no one is forcing you to read anything. Lets consider your opinion heard.

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  34. Mj Mank Mj Mank says:

    Why would u think that is ok? That is no JOKE. Are you crushing on you boss, because of you are not you should report him to HR or higher ups immediately

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