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Ladies here please help. I married virgin so didn’t have partners before to compare…so after 7 years of marriage I realized that all my depression and melancholy and blockage of energy is related to orgasm that I am not getting with my partner…

Maybe few times a year I get real orgasm that makes me feel phew! and relived…most of the sex we have on weekly basis is just a friction based orgasms that keep me blocked and want more next day again…and all that negative energy builds up and makes me depressed…all my thoughts go to sex eventually and I cant really concentrate and build my life…because something feels like is lacking…(this usually goes away immediately after a good orgasm). My husband is a good man, we have kids….

I cant leave him and start searching for another man who is more compatible in bed with me…but also I cant live my life like this too…what should I do? Reading articles on orgasm or what else…where should I seek help? Is orgasm is really a problem..or is it my husband’s problem? I don’t see any weakness in him…to say he has erection problem etc.

Nope..I feel like it is a compatibility thing.

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  1. Talk to your husband about your needs. He should be part of your solution.

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  2. I agree talking to him is a start. But it could be him…. he’s not hitting the spot. Yes there’s a spot it’s called the g spot. If it’s not hit may as well not even have sex lol

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  3. Lo En Bauzon Lo En Bauzon says:

    Just buy a god damn vibrator lol

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  4. Kayla Setter Kayla Setter says:

    Seek help of a councillor if possible to help with your depression you’d. Be surprised at how it can affect your sex life. Next I’d suggest talking to your husband it can be embarrassing since we spend our whole lives feeling like it’s taboo to talk about sex and what we want out loud. Maybe you can try some kind of sex game that makes it fun and less awkward. Let him know verbally when you like something and when you don’t. Also a lot of females can’t reach orgasm with out clitorial stimulation weather you do it yourself or he does it. Lastly if you really feel like you need that release masturbate.

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  5. Lisa Whelan Lisa Whelan says:

    Vibrator!! Easy peasy, problem solved.

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  6. Get a good vibrator, why toss in the towel if he is awesome otherwise

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  7. Tickle trunk on Whyte ave could help

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  8. Sara Curd Sara Curd says:

    If he cant get u off, its up to u to do.they have fun little toys that can help for both of u. it can help make ur relationship stronger and ur sexlife mind blowing good luck

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  9. Do it yourself and talk to him

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  10. Sounds like you need to invest in some YOU toys!!!

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  11. Ruth Chalk Ruth Chalk says:

    Go to a sex shop. Talk to them about the issues you are having they could probably help you find some toys and what not. Maybe try reading the Kama Sutra. You also need to talk to your husband. Try changing up positions once in a while

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  12. First communication.
    Second : invest in vibrator
    Third: learn how to achieve orgasm by yourself

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  13. Jocelyn Bear Jocelyn Bear says:

    New positions, new toy, maybe try being a little spontaneous? Bondage? A night alone at a hotel without kids if that’s possible.

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  14. Erin Saville Erin Saville says:

    OP, legitimately many many women fail to orgasm with penetration alone. This isn’t a you problem or a him problem it’s a general problem that women can experience commonly. Listen to the others here and invest in some toys or try switching up positions occasionally. It’s definitely not worth throwing in the towel over as there’s lots of solutions.

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  15. Angela Budd Angela Budd says:

    Have you tried talking to him? That’s what marriage is. … COMMUNICATION!! IF you don’t have communication what is the point in having that partner for life?? Trust me..communication makes for a MUCH BETTER incredible sex life!!

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  16. PORN. HUB. Learn your body well enough and pretty soon you wont even need any physical touching to orgasm lol You’ll learn to do it just by thinking hard enough lol Once you master your body, you’ll be fine. You don’t need no toys or shit like that, those will just wreck your pussy lol It’s not completely your husbands fault, most dudes seem to have no idea how to get a woman off lol Communication & masturbation are what you need.

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  17. Glenda GM Glenda GM says:

    Talk to him maybe he has no idea!!

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  18. Victor Diaz Victor Diaz says:

    How about you start with addressing your own problems instead of blaming someone else for them..

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  19. Easy solution…talk to your husband an let him know what’s going on….any man who loves an cares for you would jump to the pump so to say to make you get that feeling of releif ….just explain to him…..if he does care for you….he should step up for you

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  20. Sounds like you need to explore your own body and find what works.. Don’t leave it up to the man, he’s just as clueless.

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  21. You need to take control of your sex life girl. Read , learn and try new stuff. But let him know you are trying to learn more or he might think your stepping out if you come up something new in the bedroom.

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  22. Paula Rose Paula Rose says:

    Get sum toys sounds like or talk to your husband tell him what u want and how u want it done js

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  23. Get to an adult toystore. Get some vibrators. Get some dildoes. Get some lube and get yourself going. Self love is the best love.

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  24. This page has turned into Edmonton confessions…

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  25. Brock Hart Brock Hart says:

    Google that shit

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  26. Be on the do it yourself plan. Nobody knows your body and desires better than you. Also, when you are with your husband, do you tell him what you want? If you don’t tell him, how can he know? Be open and honest with him.

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  27. Buy a real good vibrator. Those can be a game changer. Use it during sex or by yourself.

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  28. Coty Ilott Coty Ilott says:

    Pelin Kıvrıkoğlu

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  29. Like everyone else has said…talk to your husband but also it’s quite possibly the other way around, depression leading to decreased ability to orgasm.

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  30. Ron Klatt Ron Klatt says:

    I hope youre having this conversation with him. People can learn how to please one another and some ladies are biologically harder to help achieve… that said a lot of licking and rubbing and so forth seems to do the trick… only you know what you like and if you’re not telling him what he isn’t doing he won’t learn

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  31. Masterbation is a wonderful thing. You need a orgasm…have one, just do it yourself. Seriously no man can give an orgasm like you can give one to yourself. Truth!! lol Also, a vibrator is also a wonderful thing if your lazy….plus you can get your man involved with that one. When your comfortable with masterbation, you can also share that with your husband and he may learn something.

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