Ladies here please help. I married virgin so didn’t have partners before to compare…so after 7 years of marriage I realized that all my depression and melancholy and blockage of energy is related to orgasm that I am not getting with my partner…
Maybe few times a year I get real orgasm that makes me feel phew! and relived…most of the sex we have on weekly basis is just a friction based orgasms that keep me blocked and want more next day again…and all that negative energy builds up and makes me depressed…all my thoughts go to sex eventually and I cant really concentrate and build my life…because something feels like is lacking…(this usually goes away immediately after a good orgasm). My husband is a good man, we have kids….
I cant leave him and start searching for another man who is more compatible in bed with me…but also I cant live my life like this too…what should I do? Reading articles on orgasm or what else…where should I seek help? Is orgasm is really a problem..or is it my husband’s problem? I don’t see any weakness in him…to say he has erection problem etc.
Nope..I feel like it is a compatibility thing.