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Response to 35 about to be 36. Feeling lonely

Hey so loud of you in your comments were saying to be treated like a princess is bad. So let me elaborate my family always says I should have a guy that will treat me well and kind. So I’ve been raised to believe that a guy should treat me like a princess.

I am not spoiled I always help my mother and my father. I would give the moon to my nieces and nephews if I could. I have tried plenty of dating sites, men are too blind to see what’s on the inside they only look for the outside. I am a female 35-year-old going to be 36 come February. I have tried everything that I could possibly think of. I’ve had little dates here and there but the guys I have met so far don’t even give me a second date when I try so hard to be myself. Yes I have two cats I did have three for less than six months but sadly my third one which was awesome my newest had to be put down due to health concerns. I love movies I love going for walks when I can as I busted my ankle up pretty good this summer.

So I will say this I want to guy that will treat me with respect and treat me kindly as I will treat him with respect and kindly I want him to see what’s in the inside as I would want to see his inner personality. It’s not about looks to me it’s about how a person is treated and believe me any guy that took the time to get to know me would be like winning the lottery. Yes I am a big girl only about 290 pounds I’ll be honest. I have beautiful blue eyes long brown hair and I am very caring.

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  1. But are you willing to treat him like a prince? You never answered that. It’s not all about you

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  2. Marie says:

    I don’t know OP – but you sound like a real prize. Perhaps check on some site (there’s probably a site somewhere) Guys who like RBGs. RBGs = Real Big Girls … Is that a thing?
    Treated like a princess… you should elaborate, maybe? What does that mean?
    Perhaps send a note to Meghan Markle asking her how Harry-baby’s been treating her. One way to find out for sure, what that should feel like … Yes/No?

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  3. Men don’t know how to date, your just a swipe to the right these days, I went on a date last week, guy was total bunk, no door opening, no holding hands, no conversation, just that fawkn phone, so I let him and his phone be together! I went to the bathroom, just to pay the tab and get the frig outta there, I wished men my age would grow up, so sad to see men don’t have dating skills, especially at my age! Good luck sweety! You sound fabulous! 😉

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    • Omg what this chick just said two thumbs way up!!!

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    • You realize thats not just men though right? Women do the exact same thing. Its just the way things are these days.

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    • Ramin Mohammad Oh yes, I know hoes who date just to see what they can get from the guy! Almost like shopping, ahahahaa!

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    • Graham Ible Graham Ible says:

      Way to paint us all with the same brush…wow..your the one that choose to go out with him..I can be an asshole,anyone who knows me will tell you that..but If I like a girl..I’m putting their coat on for them,holding doors open I turn the heated seat on so when I pick them up its warm for them..funny how women get hurt once by some guy and every other guy has to deal with it..

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    • Graham Ible Yes, I did choose to go out with him, but a lot of people aren’t really honest are they! All his chat about himself was bogus, seen that threw the evening, but hey, seeing how much of a gent you are, there is still hope eh! 😉

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  4. Maja Black Maja Black says:

    OMG LADY!!!! HOW MUCH ATTENTION DO YOU NEED!!!!! SEEK HELP! FREAKING DRAMA BABY. Perhaps not your fault…bet your mom was an oil guys bitch, and you are riding her skirt( hope you like the air, momma wore them short!

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  5. Kathleen Rae Kathleen Rae says:

    There is a big difference between well and kind and being treated like a princess. You haven’t figured this out and that is why you are single.

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  6. Ruth Chalk Ruth Chalk says:

    My man treats me like a princess. He doesn’t buy me everything all the time but he treats me right. He respects me. Listens to me. We don’t fight. Have healthy conversations. It’s amazing.

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  7. I have a sibling, Sam, with a problem simular to yours. Not able to meet the right person. Some dates but nothing ever materialised.
    Sam didn’t stop looking, but went on with his life. Concentrated flying solo and made the best of himself and his own life.

    I always told Sam things happen in their own time, when its right.

    Just when he stopped making it an obsession or priority in his life, it all came together and fell into place.

    Sam is happily married and she is gold.

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  8. Maja Black Maja Black says:

    OMG LADY!!!! HOW MUCH ATTENTION DO YOU NEED!!!!! SEEK HELP! FREAKING DRAMA BABY. Perhaps not your fault…bet your mom was an oil guys bitch, and you are riding her skirt( hope you like the air, momma wore them short!

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    • Liz Dubray Liz Dubray says:

      That’s pretty rude and unnecessary to say. Bit heartless. You don’t like how much attention she is getting, then don’t give her any! Problem solved!

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  9. Amy Austin Amy Austin says:

    Wait a second… did you actually say you are “only about 290 lbs?!” Sorry not sorry, but that could be why you’re having trouble finding a guy to treat you like a princess… maybe your standards are set too high? Like honestly, your weight kind of narrows your playing field quite a bit.

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    • ….. you obviously haven’t watched my 600 lbs life… all of them have husbands/wives…

      Maybe what you find attractive I find disgusting… however your personality leaves a lot to be desired that’s for sure.

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    • OMG Amy, what a bunch of bullshit coming from your mouth. We already know men are immature, did you have to prove that women can be just as stupid and thoughtless?

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    • I’m not trying to be mean, but she has a point. Don’t act all nice and act like it isn’t a big factor, because then you just look dumb. Heavily overweight people do have a harder time finding a date. It doesn’t take a genius to figure that one out.

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    • Sure, rag on Amy for speaking the truth.

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    • I’d be worried more about health concerns then actual size. I come from a family of bigger ladies and I only encourage people to loose weight 1- is they want to and 2- is it poses a health risk and larger people are at greater risk

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    • Amy Austin Amy Austin says:

      I’m just being realistic here. Depending on her height, 290lbs is morbidly obese. That limits the number of partners she will attract. It’s a fact. Facts don’t care about your feelings. It’s just like how being a smoker will limit the number of partners you will attract. Same idea.

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  10. Get off the internet and go outside. Stop looking, you will bump into him by accident.

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  11. Liz Dubray Liz Dubray says:

    Soooo….. I am not a superficial kind of person. However; I do know the expectations and standards of society. Sadly weight has a lot to do with who we are these days. I’m sure you are a beautiful person but unfortunately it actually IS what is on the outside. Media and society has molded us, programmed us to believe that we need to be skinny and fit to be happy with ourselves. So when we see someone who is a little on the rounder side, we tend to stray from approaching that kind of person. Please don’t take this personally. I’m just telling you the reality of it. I mean you get a first date but never a second. Ever ask yourself why? Sorry girl.

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    • That is so true , you nailed it

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    • Erin Saville Erin Saville says:

      yuuuuuuuup! this. Sad state society has become!

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    • Society has become this way because YOU accept it. You are part of the problem. Men come up with the stereotype and you fucking women run with it. Are you sheep? Does what a man thinks mean that much to you, that you would buy into that kind of crap. My god your complacent about it in your matter of fact statement. So basically what your saying is that men come up with the rules of what is nice and what isnt, and women like you fall in line and believe it. Well, all I can say is if you buy into it, then you get what you deserve. This isnt a mans world anymore, unless you allow it. Grow some balls bitch and see you have worth outside what a fucking male thinks.

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    • Amy Austin Amy Austin says:

      Ugh, yeah they kind of do get to decide what they want in a partner- that’s how it works. Like it or not. Men are attracted to hot women. It’s not rocket science.

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  12. I’m a bigger girl and my man totally loves everything about me. Makes me feel beautiful, sexy and loved everyday. I don’t take that for granted.
    In your response all you talked about was what a catch you are. Maybe try to talk about how you want to treat a man, what are you going to do for him, what are you looking for?
    I found a man who loves me inside and out. You can too. No one is perfect. Remember that.

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  13. How about quit being sexist it’s hard for us men too date too it’s the same for men all women want is money ,looks,and the guys d..k there no more personality you can be the nicest guy in the world but asshole douchebag pos that has the looks will be the ones who date first cause looks come first not a personality so maybe open up and try and date a guy with less looks and more personality you girls might get somewhere

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    • I want to take issue with you on this…..but I cant. Your right. I am a very good looking female and for years I want something that didnt exist….or so I thought. I did find my prince eventually, and he treats me so good, I feel guilty at times. Man, I love him so much. But, I had to let go of school girl fantasies first, and then I found him. Life is funny, our growing up years are all about princesses and the golden castles. They throw that at girls from the cradle, then when we get older and want a partner in life, we go looking for what was promised in our youth…..only to find out princes come in all shapes and sizes and that nothing is perfect and life is work. When I had my daughter, Disney princess were not allowed in my house. I think the fantasy we throw at our young girls is part of the problem.

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    • Coral Ginger MacDonald you freakin nailed it !

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    • That post was just really bad cause it makes it seem like men are pos and no we’re not it’s just there is way more pos guys then good and it’s hard

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  14. Betty Jean Betty Jean says:

    Don’t try so hard to find a guy. Love will come to you when you least expect it. Try going to places where you would like to go as a couple and don’t meet guys in bars. Go to library..theatre…Church. ..join single groups in church…bible study groups if your in to that..gym…maybe friends can introduce you to someone ..etc..

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  15. Hell, I stayed single for 15 years because the quality of guys I was seeing were very low. But, eventually I did meet a guy that treats me like a princess and I love that man so much. I am so glad I waited that time to meet him and didnt settle for an idiot because at the time that was all that was available. Wait for your prince, he is very worth it when he finally shows up. Mind you I will say he is older than me. Maturity seems to take along time for men.

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  16. Amber Dawn Amber Dawn says:

    You need to learn to love yourself… this reads like you do not.

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  17. The weight thing is a big one, I’m over weight but I get it. It looks like you just don’t take care of yourself, you look lazy. First impressions right? His impression is that you don’t do anything around the house, you won’t do anything for him in bed, he’s going to have to do everything. You probably won’t want to go out and do anything fun, your boring. This is a first impression. This is what comes to my mind when I see an obese man, big turn off, yes I know I’m a hypocrite. Also you said it’s what’s on the inside that counts, then why mention your beautiful blue eyes? Because you like your features, you get in shape and have more great features than just eyes, and then you pick and choose which guy YOU want, and which guy is sincere.

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