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Should I tell my husband my secret?

My husband works out of town 3 weeks on, 1 week off. While it’s grand having a paid home, bills and all, he’s never here to help with things around the house like hone maintenance and stuff. I take care of 2 kids by myself when he’s gone and when he’s home he spends time with the kids and his family, appointments etc. Like what a crock of crap!

He didn’t replace the lawn mower and change the light bulbs like he promised. Before you know it I’ll be using scissors to cut my lawn.

The neighbour a block away who’s separated from his wife asked me to go for drinks sometime but I said no because I’m married… but if he wanted to come ovet and help with housework because my husband is neglectful to household things when home, he could come by to help out. He did and one thing lead to another. I didn’t have sex with him, just oral sex.

I’m wondering if I should tell my husband and if so, how? Yes it was my screw up BUT I wouldn’t seek attention and help from others if he stepped up. Fixing light bulbs and a lawnmower blade is cheaper than the child support and alimony he will pay me if I leave. Ugh. Men

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  1. Amal Chaaban Amal Chaaban says:

    You are a disgrace to women. Yes. I said it. He is gone working. So what if you need to do shit around the house. You aren’t some delicate little flower. You can do this stuff. Big damn deal. Don’t try to justify your behaviour with that as an excuse

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    • it is ungrateful selfish little bitches like this that look for any excuse to crave attention and screw over guys all the time, Her man is out there busting his ass to provide a good home and quality of life for his wife and kids. sacrificing his own quality of life for them and this little whore is out there looking for some dick to swallow . You know damn well within the next month she will not be blowing the neighbour she will be banging him like a screen door in a huricane and when her man finds out and tries to leave she will cry abuse, neglect and then sue him for divorce and half of everything he has worked so hard for and in the process screwing up her kids for life because she was to fucking stupid to know how to change a damned lightbulb.She is NOT the victim here she is the abuser, she is the home wrecker she is the one who should be nailed with child support payments to her man and kids and the man should get 100% custody of his kids and she should be kicked to the curb.

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    • Amal Chaaban Amal Chaaban says:

      One thing I have learned is that Youtube is an amazing teacher. This person is using a shitty excuse for her bad behaviour. She is disgraceful and I am embarrassed she is female.

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    • Robin Potter Robin Potter says:

      Yes! My bf has to stop me from doing a lot of things because I try to do it all myself. Change light bulbs… You kidding me? Enjoy the dark and cutting your grass with scissors.

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    • 100% agree I’m a single mother of 2 under 5 and I change my own light bulbs mow my own lawn it’s not the end of the world your luck to have someone that helps with the bills and shit I don’t have that I do it all on my own I what hate to see your actions when you become single you lose well put a sign on your lawn now “I blow for yard work”

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    • Exactly. I have male friends who can help if I really need it.. I also do have legs and arms which make me capable. I’m single but would never bitch I gotta change a lightbulb, or help with my share of yard work (which I do do) lol.

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    • She should be thankful he has work and provides! So ungrateful

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    • Amal Chaaban Amal Chaaban says:

      Yes. She is. She sounds whiny and immature

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    • Exactly! I’m a stay at home mom, 2 kids, husband works out of town.. I’ve had to figure out how to do things on my own. My lawn mower crapped out on me last month and I had to figure out how to fix it (Google is an amazing thing).
      She sounds like an entitled brat. I hope he sees this and divorces her ass

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    • Teresa Downer yes!! Google and YouTube all the way–and if that doesn’t work I wait till hubby is off work and ask him what he thinks is wrong and what I should try next.

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    • you, Amal Chaaban took the words right out of my mouth !!!

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    • Dario Tomada Dario Tomada says:

      Well said Amal!

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    • Agreed!! Learn how to fix shit it’s called You tube!!!

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    • TJ Mceachern TJ Mceachern says:

      Damn straight!! Preach!!!

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    • Amal Chaaban Amal Chaaban says:

      Peter, yep . She is awful

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    • Lucia Iorio Lucia Iorio says:

      Exactly…..

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  2. Chris Dumais Chris Dumais says:

    Changing light bulbs does take a degree in neuroscience engineering, so I can see your issue with that. As for the lawnmower, I’m fairly certain you need a minimum of a mechanical engineering degree, a phd in physics, and you may or may not need a social sciences degree. Most people will put you down for cheating, but I completely understand your plight.

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  3. Phill DL Phill DL says:

    It’s much easier to change lightbulbs when you’re not on your knees

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  4. Brett Lahey Brett Lahey says:

    So, it’s his fault? Before people cheat for a reason like this. Maybe they should actually care and try. While he could actually care about you and not realize his tiny mistakes you’ve done something that will be with him forever. You seem like you do not care because it ” wasn’t sex it was just oral ”

    If you wanted out just say it don’t be a coward and hurt someone who has not hurt you.

    Ungrateful swine .

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  5. You are a horrible person and don’t deserve what you have. It’s hard to communicate with another guys dick in your mouth. I can’t even I’m about to just launch into a tirade of abuse.

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  6. First off – you don’t know how to replace a lightbulb yourself?
    Both me and my man work out of town, see each other less than a week at a time and it hasn’t been necessary to suck another guy’s dick. Get it together lady

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    • She is not even close to being called a lady Tramp slut whore etc suits her

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    • Hazel Aquino Hazel Aquino says:

      Thats true..i change my own bulb..i even fixed my broken vacuum by myself even though my husband is just righy beside me..most of mens job we can do it too..and most of all her husband is working 3weeks straight.. its annoying yes for him not to help but i will still consider his long hours/days of work..i know we get the feeling of being lazy too thats normal I guess and ask for help from someone..but doing blow job on your neighbhor while your husband is away working not normal..

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    • She just said oral sex. Maybe she didn’t suck his dick. Maybe he performed on her???

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    • She can’t even go buy a lawnmower lmfao jks

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  7. Leeny IRule Leeny IRule says:

    My husband has ALS. He can no longer move, and it’s only time before he passes away. He’s 46. I have to do everything in our home, maintaining everything and making sure he’s comfortable. I’m not bringing you down here, but please appreciate that things could get worse. Embrace those challenges, because they do make you stronger, and when he comes home from work, hug him tighter.

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  8. Disgraceful. And you should be honest with him so he doesnt have to pay you alimoney and can get on with his life and maybe find a lady who would appreciate what he has to offer!

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  9. Lisa Hall Lisa Hall says:

    You must air it all out and work on marriage. Been there.

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  10. April Hills April Hills says:

    Are you not capable of changing a light bulb yourself? Or taking your lawnmower in to get repaired?

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  11. You can’t change light bulbs yourself?

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  12. Your husband is working to support you and your children and that’s how you repay him? You do not deserve him. At all. Change the blade yourself. Change the light yourself. Grow. Up.

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  13. What !!!! What is wrong with you ?!

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  14. RIP! self centered much. fix it yourself. Your husband should know and he should leave you. You probably wont get alimony since you cheated. Your broke your vows not him

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  15. Ya like can’t fuck run out to Home depot for lawn mower! Can’t screw up enough brain power to change a lightbulb herself. But it’s all his fault
    Cunt

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  16. I lived this life to but think about him. He’s away from his kids and you. He doesn’t have time to play or see his kids grow up. And your worried about a lawnmower. Go buy a new one. Can’t always buy a new husband or family. Time to talk to him and maybe he will go buy a new wife

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  17. Lana Almaeva Lana Almaeva says:

    Normally it would be fair to expect some help, however when one person works away from home for so long it is time for creative solutions. Like say hiring a handy man.

    Also why can’t you change your own lightbulbs? Do you wait for your partner to change a toilet paper roll too?

    Now imagine this, you work away for three weeks and your husband gets mad at you for not cooking dinners, not doing laundry and not vacuuming. And them cheats on you because of that. How would you feel?

    What’s wrong with communicating? Asking him to find a different work/home balance? You getting a job perhaps? Or just leaving if you are that unhappy.

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  18. This has to be fake.

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  19. LuckyMe Chan LuckyMe Chan says:

    Uhmmmm Are you working? If your not working I’d expect those things to be done.

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  20. You’re a spoiled brat. Your husband deserves better.

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  21. I’d rather buy a new lawn mower than do what you did and how hard is it to change a light bulb???Cheating should never be an option. If you are unhappy, leave your marriage.

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  22. Mandoid Ray Mandoid Ray says:

    Wow. You’re a special kind of bitch.

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  23. Lol he didn’t change the light bulbs and go buy you a Shiny new lawn mower so you whore yourself out to the first person who will and he’s the douchbag? Sorry but he won’t owe you shit if u cheat on him. Like seriously you can’t get of your ass for 30 seconds it takes to change a light bulb? Or go buy your own lawn mower especially if you’re the one who uses it??

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  24. Stacey Adams Stacey Adams says:

    That son of a bitch!! How dare he be a good dad and spend time with the kids family alien he’s home! Not sure why you can change your own light bulbs. Maybe hire one of the neighborhood kids to mow your lawn instead of blowing the separated neighbor.

    Anyways. When you get divorced send your ex husband my way. He’ll find a good woman that appreciates a hard working man.

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  25. Leave him, he doesn’t deserve you, by now you probably stated having sex with your neighbour. Or defenitly looking to try other handy man…

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  26. Diane Peters Diane Peters says:

    What a crock of poop. Again, I question if such idiots actually exist in this world. Mow your friggin lawn and change your own lightbulb, and stop giving BJ’s as payment for services rendered. And while you’re at it, let your husband know what a POS he married.

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  27. Megan Riggs Megan Riggs says:

    Change the light bulbs yourself!! Ask to borrow a lawn mower! You’re a ho!!!

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  28. Please do tell him because he deserves better anyways.

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  29. My husband is gone all the time too! Raised my kids alone, struggled through the teenage years myself, married to a voice on the phone……but you know what, that’s the man I married!!! He takes care of me and my kids…..he’s the step dad. When he comes home for work, I do my best to have beer and a good meal ready for him!!

    Here’s something…..get off your ass and change the bulb yourself, get the lawnmower fixed or hire someone to mow it. Hopefully your hubby reads this and puts two and two together and leaves you cause you don’t deserve him!!!

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  30. Leave him, he doesn’t deserve you. By now you probably started having sex with your neighbour. Or maybe looking to try other handy men…

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  31. Rick Murch Rick Murch says:

    REALLY? You can’t change a lightbulb, or buy a new lawnmower? So you screw with the neighbour. Get a divorce, your husband deserves better.

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  32. Stay at home have everything paid for and you bitch and cheat ?

    Change the bulb yourself and take the lawnmower in .

    Unreal

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  33. Denean Neena Denean Neena says:

    Tell him yes poor guy i feel for him

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  34. Fallon Paul Fallon Paul says:

    Who the fuck cheats because their husbands spending time with family and his kids OH MY GOD YOU NEED TO BE SMACKED you are absolutely disgusting and it’s people like you who give women a bad name

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  35. Renee Huff Renee Huff says:

    woooooooow your a piece of work. He’s better off without your ungrateful ass. He’s out there busting his ass for you and all you can do is fuck the neighbour and then bitch and complain about how YOUR the victim….well guess what, your not. Learn how to fix things Yourself, there’s youtube and home repair classes for a reason. Masturbate while he’s gone and then have your fill while he’s home. If you need a few hrs to yourself, then find a trustworthy sitter and go out with your Girlfriends, NOT the neighbour. Someone needs to knock some sense into you.

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  36. Sally Sicko Sally Sicko says:

    I’m hoping OP is a troll, because this is like… beyond fucked up.

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  37. You should tell him…so that he can leave your sorry ass.

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  38. You disgust me.
    I could say more, but this sums it up.

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    • Exactly what I was gonna say… like wtf is wrong with people. Didn’t cut grass or change a bulb so I’ll go suck someone else’s knob… fucking disgusting…

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  39. As a woman who’s husband works up north, this makes me sick.

    If you don’t have to work outside of the home, you should consider yourself lucky and quit complaining. A light bulb burns out, fix it. Go somewhere to get the lawnmower blade fixed.

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  40. Hahaha nasty nasty troll…. Next time you change the light bulb check to make sure it’s getting enough power to the bulb by putting your finger in the socket. Also when it comes to changing the blade on the mower, I’d suggest having it running…. I hear it helps and makes it easier.. Just a couple tips…. Ugh women

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  41. So sad to hear something like this. There is obviously no love for him from the way you word your post. People who truly love each other don’t cheat or lie. They talk their issues out and work through them. Tell him for sure. He doesn’t deserve this deception.
    It disgusts me that you end your post with ‘ugh, men’ when it seems that it is not the man at fault here. It’s you.

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  42. Wtf. Lady I am in the same boat as you and sometimes I cant get things to work for me. Like most recently, my damn lawn mower. So I asked my neighbour to help me and guess what? No hidden sexual agenda. Takes a weak woman to crumble like that when her man is gone. Empower yourself. Figure things out on your own. His week home is for him.

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  43. Nope. You don’t get to blame him for your disgrace.

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  44. Oh cry me a fucking river you had to change a light bulb or cut the grass! You have a man that works his ass off so you can sit home with your children! My husband was gone across Canada For over 3 months straight and I did every on my own with 3 children, 1 of them being a new born and that includes packing an entire house to move, repairs around my house, dealing with court issues and that’s just a small taste and NEVER once thought about cheating on my man. You most definitely should tell your husband and I hope he leaves your cheating ass and finds a woman that will appreciate him!

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  45. Betty Gordon Betty Gordon says:

    Okay Lewinsky. SEX IS SEX. Be it oral or internal its sex. Yes, tell him and get a divorce because you dont deserve your husband. He is out busting his ass to keep roof over your head, put you in a home paid for, bills paid and you bitch because he does not cut the lawn or maintane the home or bow to you. You should be grateful for what he has provided for you and provides. Do you think him working away at his job he is out bowling, riding bikes and enjoy the beach? I am sure he works hard and looks forward to the rest when he gets home and his family. NO wander he goes and spends it with his family and his kids because it does not sound like he wants to be around you. You would think you can get your butt out there and mow the lawn but if you dont want to break your manicured nails then hire someone to do the yard, it only costs $35 a week or so, hire someone to do some maintenance so that both you and your husband can enjoy the time togehter as family and he not have to do MORE work when he has already come home from work. I am sure someone out there would be more than happy to be in your paid home, paid bills and happily maintaining the yard and home and be faithful to this man. So, yeah, divorce him and dont bother asking for alimony as you dont deserve that. Why would you want his money when you dont want him. GREED!! Go marry your next door neightbor I am sure he would love a cheater, because once a cheater always a cheater. You know how the saying goes, you cheat with him you will cheat on him. What a disgusting wife you are, wemon like yoiu make me sick.

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    • Betty Gordon Betty Gordon says:

      it just annoys the hell out of me and in the end she feels that she is entitled to alimony when she decides to leave. Then she will go crawling to court playing the “poor me” wife. Our court system needs to change and start being in favor of the husbands in cases like this and look at the wemons disgusting acts that lead to this. But no, he will be the one who will unfortuantely be forking out money for this home wrecker if it comes to a divorce. And what is this at the end of her story…UGH Men…look in the mirror you ungrateful person.

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    • what if she only gave a nasal?

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    • Jodi Flatt Jodi Flatt says:

      Lewinsky hahahaha Internet Win^^
      And a damn good point!

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  46. You’re a real piece of shit. Yes, we have to take care of the kids alone and blah blah blah but your HUSBAND is out there making money for his family. Missing important things in his child(ren) lives. Learn how to change a fuckin light bulb, as for the lawn there’s tons of kids looking to make money and love to take care of lawns. I really hope he leaves your ass and u can skank your way around and find some other poor soul to do regular things a woman should know how to do.

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  47. Dean Klassen Dean Klassen says:

    My guess is this is made up.

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  48. Wow you’re an ungrateful little bitch. Do him a favour and leave.

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  49. Are you in capable of changing a lightbulb by yourself??? Seriously??

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  50. Also, how did him helping with household chores become “one thing lead to another and i S his D” !? What!??? Sounds like this marriage has been over for a while. Do him a favour and divorce him.

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  51. Wow your a cunt! I hope you get hit by a bus.

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  52. Whoooo-eeerrrrrrr

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  53. Cee Que Cee Que says:

    Wow you’re an ungrateful piece of crap… this man is working and taking care of your family and you gotta bitch cause he’s not doing little crappy things around the house. Good luck! He will divorce your ass, hopefully doesnt give you any money and you gotta sort your own life out

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  54. How about you get off your fat ass an go work outs town for 3 weeks at a time…..see if it’s such a cake walk….your a disgrace to all women who have a man working his ass off out of town to support you….fuk you discuss me….fukn horrible excuse for a wife…..
    Your just a sperm burping tramp an your husband should kick your ass to the curb or over to your neighbor an he can pay your bills while your sucking cock…..disspicable human

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    • She is a disgrace to all women period! Single or married. This shit wrecks it for those of us who dont behave this way at all! A grown woman would never act this way!

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    • She is a disgrace to all women period! Single or married. This shit wrecks it for those of us who dont behave this way at all! A grown woman would never act this way!

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  55. You probly have a STD.. franfrikintastik! Your a WHORE who uses your husband as a JOHN, you OLD FILTHY hooker!
    Tell him so he can find someone who is much more deserving!

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  56. I have a hard time believing that this isn’t just a troll. Nobody’s this much of an irrational cunt in real life, right?

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  57. Not sure what you expected to receive in the way of comments here, but I find it hard to believe that you expected sympathy.
    Many marriages work this way.
    What will never work is being unfaithful, in any way. If you aren’t happy, end it. He and your children deserve more than to have you excusing shitty behaviour.

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  58. Maria Vieira Maria Vieira says:

    If all your bills are paid, etc, you have money, why cant u take the lawnmower in to be repaired, get a ladder and replace the light bulbs, and what no family or friends to help?

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  59. Landon Gott Landon Gott says:

    This is the kind of thing that scares me.. go out of town to provide for family.. come home to a cheating whore of a wife.. fuck how hard is it to be faithful… unreal behavior… not acceptable ever at all anytime.. you ain’t happy get the hell out.

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  60. learn to do these things yourself..i did and i had 5 kids you cannot foist everything on him and his time spent with the kids is precious

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  61. I’m just here for my Jerry beads….

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  62. Jan Gray Jan Gray says:

    My thoughts exactly, Amal Chaaban!!! My husband works away 6-8 weeks at a time! We have a 6 yo, 3 yo, and 5 week old. I manage to take care of our kids and house duties while he sacrifices his time with our kids and family life to make money to support us!!! You need to give your head a shake! Too bad you’re so GD selfish!!!!!

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  63. Self entitled princess, that’s what you are. Prime example of everything wrong in society.

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  64. Kerry Lynn Kerry Lynn says:

    Lmao, you’re a pathetic excuse for a woman. My husband also works like that and I have to look after our home and family. Get off your sorry ass and do the God damn chores you lazy self centered pos. I change light bulbs, paint walls, install my own hardware for stuff around the house. I mow the lawn and weed whack, pick weeds, and everything else that needs to be done to keep OUR home running. You’re pathetic

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  65. Marie Krista Marie Krista says:

    Un fucking believable!!!! That would be the day…. you wouldn’t get a penny from me and I’d even take the fucking kids what a piece of dog shit you are, YOU GIVE WOMEN a bad reputation. HES WORKING PROVIDING. Learn a fucking skill. INDEPENDENCE. Anything my man can do I can do I’m very capable. Yes please tell him hope he leaves your ass and that cock in your mouth was worth the heartache your children will suffer…. WHORE!!!!

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  66. Lmaooooo! Really?

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  67. Seriously? My hubby works away as well. And has been for 4 years. He works long hard hours, and the last thing he as well as myself, wants him to do is housework on days off. His time home (4 days at a time) is valued. By spending time with his family, running errands that he needs to do and relaxing. If you need a lightbulb changed, grab a chair and change the lightbulb, if your lawnmower needs to be fixed and he doesn’t have the time to do it, bring it in for maintenance . If you feel like you’re not getting enough attention from him, and would rather look elsewhere. Then leave, you’re obviously not happy–or like you said bayou wouldn’t be looking elsewhere.

    How would you like it if your hubby went elsewhere to look for his sexual needs?

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  68. You’re a cunt, change your lightbulbs and cut yo grass, lazy and ungrateful

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  69. you are at fault baby how could you do that to your husband..you sound like a very selfish woman ..grow up

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  70. Alexis Musik Alexis Musik says:

    Pierrette Sharkey

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  71. Lisa Fedirko Lisa Fedirko says:

    Weird how everyone interpreted it as she gave him oral …. when I figured she received LOL

    Anyway. You’re an awful person. Get divorced. And next time use google to hire a handyman or YouTube how to do things yourself.

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  72. Andrea Jobin Andrea Jobin says:

    Your a heartless cunt.. Tell your poor husband you cheated on him so he can leave your slezy ass… Hes out there breaking his back for you and your out there being a whore..

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  73. Wow I feel so sorry for your husband… honestly I do! My husband works 20 away and 10 home and I can’t imagine having that mindset. Yes you have to attend to the house, the kids and every daily activity, appointment, sport etc but that’s the life we chose to live. Your husband could have came home to work in the city but that means less money, smaller house, cheaper car and more than likely you’ll have to work and still do everything your doing plus more with the stress of less money! A man comes home working 12 hour days 20 days in a row and the last thing he wants to do is come home and work! As a woman grow some balls and fix things yourself!!! Change the light bulbs?!?!?! Are you kidding me? Lol you should tell your husband you cheated, he is better off without YOU!

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  74. Chris Voth Chris Voth says:

    Need another light bulb changed out? /wink

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  75. Bev Bolan Bev Bolan says:

    According to this piece of works logic, I should have divorced my husband long ago. BUT, when he’s home I would rather he spend time with our children and me then slaving away completing a list of chores which I am more than capable of handling. He works hard enough when he’s gone.

    If you don’t know how to change a damn light bulb, and cheated because of this “reason”, then I’m unsure as to how he is still with YOU.

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  76. So it’s his fault you sucks someone’s dick other than his? I think not. If everything is paid you could have easily gone to Canadian tire, bought a new one and cut the grass yourself or changed the light bulbs. As a woman, you should be capable of such chores…not blowing another man. That choice was all yours. Tell your husband you blew someone and let him find a woman worthy of his time . He’s off busting his ass to provide for you and your kids…maybe if you blew him he’d cut the grass or change the bulbs…

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  77. Hmmm. A relationship that feels like you’re taken for granted and lonely can make you look at other guys. But you’re married, he works and you don’t so you’re part of a team. If you cheat because he didn’t replace a lawnmower then you’re a childish and spiteful person.

    There’s always two sides to every story but come on, you don’t know how lucky you are.

    One thing doesn’t lead to another: you wanted it.

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  78. Sharon Swan Sharon Swan says:

    Not sure why a kid in neighbour hood cannot cut your lawn … you can change a light bulb if a screw in … others you need a ladder and wrenches if in ceiling … I see women cutting their own grass and husband works in town not every week but they cut it … take kids out side with you … if divorcing husband … send him my way as I would just be happy that he was home for the week

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  79. Jackie Ogden Jackie Ogden says:

    Are you incapable of doing these things yourself? You seem to be able to do everything else, so why are these things so difficult that you can’t do them. Pony the eff up and don’t bitch and complain. Either figure out how to do shit by yourself.

    No good has ever come from being honest about infidelity.

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  80. Get a life .. stop posting

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  81. You can change the light bulbs yourself, and you can also replace the lawnmower. Are you really that incapable of doing anything? You sound really fucking ungrateful that you have a man who works hard to provide for you and your children. You’re probably one of those women who depend on a man for everything, it’s pretty pathetic. Your husband only gets 1 week off, so of course he would rather spend time with his kids and family rather than doing household things that you can accomplish all on your own. Of course you should tell your husband, he deserves to know that his wife is a hoe.

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  82. That said “ugh, men!”…you were the one who cheated (or, paid the man for his handyman services).

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  83. Ali C-f Ali C-f says:

    FFS! The man is supporting your ass! You stay home with the kids, big deal. Yes, I know being a stay at home mom is work ( I have 3 kids and I have been there) Maybe look into what childcare costs for 2 kids if you and him were working. You definitely should tell him of what you did and take the consequences. You didn’t honor your vows while he’s working to support his family. Hes done nothing wrong! You may not agree with what he does when he’s home but if you don’t like it, talk to him more about what you want from him. I would guess your relationship needs more communication and that’s why you are feeling animosity about the time he’s home and not doing enough. Have you ever asked him about what his days of working involve? Perhaps he’d decides not to burden you with it while he’s gone because your not working for income and home with your kids.

    Sounds like the lightbulb and lawnmower are more of an excuse for yourself, to convince yourself you’ve been wronged by him and to justify to yourself why you CHEATED! Yep, cheated. Those are not actions of a loving wife!
    Stop looking for the fault in him and ask yourself if you really want to be on this relationship and go from there. IMO

    Ps. Who says that he will be the one paying child support and alimony. You clearly broke your vows and he’s making the money to support the kids. Give your head a shake, as it would most likely be you paying alimony and child support.

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  84. Randa Gill Randa Gill says:

    Please divorce him and give him full custody of the children.

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  85. OMG I just want to punch you in the mouth.

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  86. First of all, I shall be polite & restrain myself from some of the more vulgar comments I am reading. So I too, is a wife of a spouse who travelled for a living. Away weeks at a time like yourself. (Remind yourself of service folks that are months away, please). I worked outside of the home, I delivered, picked up the kids at daycare, cooked, cleaned, repaired & got the lawn done. Yes, I was also the more tired female on the block, but I did it to make our family whole. He worked, came home & loved my girls. All I asked that he came home safe & sound. That is what love is. We shall handle the rest. Now….with the neighbour…sex is sex. What you did is adultery. Plain & simple. You need therapy dear girl. And marriage counselling immediately. You will be lucky if your spouse stays with you. Good Luck. By the way, I have been happily married over 40 years & he still travels. And comes home to me. I change light bulbs as well.

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  87. What in the actual fuck

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  88. You cant change a fucking lightbulb?? The fuck is wrong with you?? I knew how to change a lightbulb when i was 8 years old and ive been mowing lawns since i was 13. Get off your lazy ass and do the work. Your husband is out there working his ass off for you and the kids and you sucked another mans dick.

    Ugh men?? How about ugh ungreatful sows who betray their men over fucking nothing.

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  89. How many hoes does it take to change a lightbulb ? Apparently this one can’t , Jack Weir

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  90. Amy Angela Amy Angela says:

    Oral sex for changing a light bulb? What a deal.

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  91. Urg ungrateful hoe bags

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  92. You SHOULD be guilty & ashamed of yourself, your husband is out working and trying to put food on the table for your family.

    If he is unable to get those tasks done, why don’t you hire someone and pay them for it?

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  93. Sue Kidd Sue Kidd says:

    Well said Brett Lahey!

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  94. Reed Wilson Reed Wilson says:

    You whore. While he is out of town providing for your family your out n about whoring it up. Hire a nanny, hire molly maid, not that hard slut. Just as he keeps in it his pants at work you should keep your legs closed. Fuck i HATE women like you.

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  95. Sue Kidd Sue Kidd says:

    Well said Jessica Almeda May Czech! I totally agree!

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  96. My husband was working in the oilsands and I had to take care of everything. The bonus was we had a place to live and food to eat. When he came home,it was like Christmas….happy. A time to reconnect and love each other again. That’s what people do in a relationship.

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  97. Wtf! He is away busting his ass off to give you and your family everything. I bet when he comes home from working so damn hard he wants to unwind and relax. My question you can’t change a light bulb yourself? I feel so bad for any man who has to experience this bullshit. Why don’t you try doing his job and see how alive you are come the end of a shift away.

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  98. Ugh cheating women!! Good lord if you can’t change a light bulb or sharpen a lawn mower blade yourself then maybe you should give him a break and leave but don’t ask for child support as you’re the one cheating on him. God women like you make me so angry and sick!!!!!!!!!

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  99. I applaud your frugality, he is out of town working his bag off, you found a cheap way to get the work done. More money in your pocket and less worry about chores piling up.

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  100. Jessy Turner Jessy Turner says:

    You cunty slut! Tell him so he can be done with you.

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  101. I am not going to say anything in judgement. I am sure you will see it in enough comments and yes I personally think what you did is wrong.
    My husband and I had jobs where we worked such opposite shifts that we saw each other once every 3 months. Our son was just born and I was there 100% and he saw him for a day.
    I ended up telling him we need change. And he changed employment where he worked in same city and same hours. When our daughter came, our marriage was much happier.
    But your scheduling was not his choice only. Both of you made those decisions and agreements so you don’t have a right to complain. If you don’t like it, change it – without breaking vows.
    I admit that our finances are harder now but again we made decisions together

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    • By the way, do you want to tell him because you believe he has a right to know? Or because you want to absolve the guilt? Often people confess because they want the information or guilt to be shared, but it is a selfish act. Yet so was the behavior

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  102. Dario Tomada Dario Tomada says:

    jumps right into support and alimony…wow, you are the cheater, why should he pay because you cant keep your vows..he should dump you asap! Money grubbing scum..

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  103. It’s whores like you that give us good women a bad name.

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  104. Steven Van Steven Van says:

    Denie ,Denie, Denie

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  105. You are so lucky!! I can’t even begin to berate you for this BS post!! Get off your damn ass, lady!! You think it’s a big party working 3 on, 1 off??? And being away from home and his kids…..probably doesn’t miss you much, tho……

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  106. 100% agree I’m a single mother of 2 under 5 and I change my own light bulbs mow my own lawn it’s not the end of the world your luck to have someone that helps with the bills and shit I don’t have that I do it all on my own I what hate to see your actions when you become single you lose well put a sign on your lawn now “I blow for yard work”

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  107. This has to be a troll.

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  108. Kat Tellez Kat Tellez says:

    You’re an idiot. Too useless to go get a new lawnmower, but not too useless to suck off the neighbour? You should tell your husband. He deserves better

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  109. geeze makes you wonder what she will do when she needs the garbage taken out or driveway shovelled.

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  110. Hahahaha … silly girl… grow up….

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  111. Fucking low life scum you are

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  112. Typical “modern” woman. You have to be insane to marry as a guy these days.

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  113. Lol lady. You knew what you were doing when you said he could come over to help out with household things. He just asked you to go for drinks – you told him no because you were married, first clue that this was more than a friendly meet up. You’re honestly going to justify cheating on your husband because he won’t change a light bulb? Holy hell. I hope he finds out and takes the kids, house and everything – because infidelity don’t fly in divorce court. I think you are just looking for an easy way out.

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  114. This is like the women that marry doctors and lawyers and police then they bitch that their partner is never home or there for them. They never have time for their family. Their job is always more important. Fuck you!

    You knew going in! You have nothing to complain about. You married the job when you married him! You knew what the job was and you chose to marry the guy that had limited time in exchange for the lifestyle. Suck it up and be a responsible adult!!

    Yes, you should tell him! Then you should get on your knees and beg him to forgive your shitty, cheating, worthless ass. You have no one to blame for this situation but yourself.

    What’s the issue? He makes damn good money and he works damn fucking hard to get it. Cut off a small piece of your lifestyle and pay a handyman to fix things. Pay a neighbor kid to mow your lawn. Use some of that hard earned money to make life a little easier for the one who worked his ass off to earn it AND SHOW SOME GRATITUDE!

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  115. Women like you piss me the f**k off he’s gone 3 weeks and let me guess u don’t have to work so there for household chores are YOUR responsibility get a ladder and change the damn bulb when he comes home remind him that the blades on the mower need to be changed and watch how he does it so u can do it your self common lady man up grow some balls and help your hard working man out you see him once a month from what I gather so u is it that u need to go to a neighbour to get your jollys off it’s called a vibrator and a dildo use it or hell your fingers work great too!!!!
    And on a side not oral is sex u cheated own up and if he’s smart he’ll leave your ass then your going to have to get a job and do it all on your own!

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  116. A handy man would have cost you a lot less, now you’ll get to be a single mom …better learn how to change a lightbulb

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  117. Wow. You are so entitled and spoiled. This man sacrifices so much for you and the family. Do you know how much pain it is to be away from your kids all day, let alone for 3 weeks at a time!??? Like don’t you realise how huge sacrifice that is? And you get to be with them all the time, and have all that love and bonding with them? That is PRICELESS.You have NO IDEA what he is giving up, obviously. What a terrible situation for that man to be in. He sacrifices so much for you. So you and the kids can have a good life. And this is how you repay him? So sad.

    You should be honest with him, unless you are going to be true to your cheating lying bitch self. If thats not what you want to be, then be honest and tell him the truth.

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  118. He’s providing a living for his family!!Many women have way more going on then that! You cut the lawn and change the fricken light bulbs. I cut acres in my day, and still changing light bulbs. In response to your adultery, you already know where that goes – get counselling.

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  119. I am a single mom who works and owns my own home. Guess who changes lightbulbs and mows my lawn…ME…never even got child support until 6 months ago…my kid is 6…fuck off wih your self entitled bull shit. Hope he sees this post and you wont be seeing any alimony…

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  120. Kate Ergovan Kate Ergovan says:

    Like its hard to go and get a new lawn mower? Or to use google to fix it? Im sure if you did your research it wouldnt be hard! And fixing lightbulbs?! really?! You sound like a spoiled brat. You should have talked to your husband about these things instead of cheating. Jesus christ. He shouldnt hvae to pay shit for you. You need to tell him and own the responsibility of your actions, he has stepped up and is working out of town 3 weeks on 1 week off to spend time with his family. You dont think he’d rather work in town and see his family everyday? You need to tell him what you did and that you did it for feeling x,y and z and emphasis that its not an excuse youre just letting him know what state you were in and why and that its not acceptable regardless and you know that.

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  121. Wow ur can’t even be a good person loyal wife and mother sounds like he’s better off paying u alimony dumb ass someone else will take care of ur problem husband as u see it. She will be crying on here once that happens ! Lol

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  122. You think he enjoys being away from home all the time missing his kids to put food on your table? Chicks like you are scum of the earth. Mans missing out on life to try and give his family the best life they can have, then you go and blow some dude behind his back. Your a piece of shit

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  123. Carole Burke Carole Burke says:

    Hope he kicks your sorry ass to the curb ! Listen SNOWFLAKE….I hope he finds out and kicks your sorry ass OUT!
    You are a sorry example of a wife and mother.
    Makes me sick to think there are lazy sluts like you with a good hard working man busting his balls at work.
    I truly hope he find’s out.
    Can’t change a light bulb.. Hahaha omg! Sucking dick for exchange for house hold repairs.
    What the hell has this world come to?

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  124. Ryan Preece Ryan Preece says:

    Lol not sure what that broad expected. People to side with her like hell if you give BJ’s for light bulbs you down with anal for the lawn? Choo choo

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  125. Emma Fleck Emma Fleck says:

    I’m sure he knows he married a whiny loser…..say nothing.

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  126. Dale Martin Dale Martin says:

    Whats the offer on mowing your “lawn”…

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  127. LOL you gave oral sex and your lawn mower probably still needs fixing.

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  128. Omg shut up. My hubby is gone 1 month at a time, I have 2 young kids and I work full time….Holy fuck you people complain way to much.

    And you’re a poor excuse of a woman, my hubby doesn’t do lots of what he said he would and I’ve never went and cheated or got another man to do it for me… you’re pathetic.

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  129. Dean Fortin Dean Fortin says:

    This is why oilfield wives get the bad rep…

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  130. You are the biggest bitch in the world. You have two arms and two legs and a heart beat change the light bulbs yourself and go get a lawn mower. Your husband sounds like a great guy. Hope he figures your ass out and fuck your over like you have been doing to him

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  131. Jeremy Dines Jeremy Dines says:

    Fuck. I’m super happy about the number of women calling your dumbass out. I know you came here expecting sisters before misters or some shit like that. I hope he finds out the ho you really are, and takes you to the cleaners in the divorce. Your kids don’t need to grow up with a role model who gives out a bj for a job a teenager would do for $20. Yup, that’s right, you prostitutes yourself.

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  132. Omg! Learn that stuff on ur own. Hes out there earning so u can have a house and whatever fancy things u need to buy and ur chastising him. He doesnt deserve u

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  133. Wow…..these comments….. ESPECIALLY from the ladies…..almost restore my faith in humanity. Noice!!

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  134. yah don’t get alimony when u fuck around its women like u that make us men who work out of town so leary

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  135. Randy Murray Randy Murray says:

    Please!!! Tell your husband he deserves way better than you!!!

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  136. This pisses me off to no end. My partner works the same shift and I manage all the house work just fine? Lawnmower busted? Ok I’ll march my ass to the store and buy a new one. Admittedly he mowed the lawn this time before he left but I’ve done the bulk of it this summer.

    Lightbulbs? I’m fucking 5’3″ and I get a stepladder if I need to do it.

    If I get sad or lonely I hang out with friends but seriously? I get by just fine by making sure to take care of myself and him when he’s home.

    He should leave your piece of garbage ass. I’m disgusted.

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  137. You absolutely should tell him! I definitely has the right to know he’s married to a whore. Don’t think he needs to worry about you leaving, he should be more worried about you staying.

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    • Bang on! She could have hired the kid down the block to change her bulbs and cut her grass but she probably would have wanted a taste if him too. Ho ho ho ho ho~

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  138. Sweetheart, you’d be out on your fucking ass if I was your husband.

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  139. Evan Marcoff Evan Marcoff says:

    You’re fucking useless and hopeless. Be happy he’s supporting you, and hasn’t left you (yet).

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  140. Learn to do stuff. I love cutting the grass and weed eating. I can change light bulbs and today learned how to do electrical stuff. You cheated on your husband because you blame him for looking after you and the kids. Try seeing things from his perspective for a change.

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  141. Frank Yurich Frank Yurich says:

    Your a CUNT change the bulb fuck you have no worries finacially and your all over town suckin dick

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  142. “My husband works his ass off to provide for me and our children, but he didn’t fix the lawn mower so I sucked the neighbors dick”

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  143. TJ Mceachern TJ Mceachern says:

    Wow, just wow….

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  144. You sound like a real catch. Your husband works his ass off out of town for you and your kids to have a good life and you cheat on him? Maybe spending time with his kids and family, after being out of town for weeks at a time, is his priority. I wouldn’t blame him.

    Hire a kid to mow your lawn, learn to change a light bulb. He shouldn’t have to work and then come home and work tonnes more. Your job is the house, his is to bring home the income and support you. Granted, he should help a bit, but come on.

    I hope there were other things he did to hurt you, otherwise….

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  145. Frank Yurich Frank Yurich says:

    Thats funny you know how to suck cock but cant change a light bulb who taught you that your mom or ypur dad !!!

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  146. Like Michael Colwell said…….hos be hoin

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  147. Amber Looker Amber Looker says:

    Go get some light bulbs and a new lawn mower your self you bitch!! Stop blaming him for your laziness he’s out there away from home making an honest living and you can’t change a light bulb? I hope he kicks your ass to the curb and pays you nothing. Adultery is a thing in the eyes of court. Ugh!!!!!!!!!

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  148. What a lazy whore, what’s your number?

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  149. I think some people are just making this crap up, trying to get a rise out of people?! This is like a spoof off a previous post… attention seekers!

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  150. Brar Saab Brar Saab says:

    Looks like fake story

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  151. Your disgusting!!!
    Your blaming him for you cheating!!?
    You dont deserve anything good hes brought to you Hope you lose everything including your kids to him

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  152. You slept with someone else because he didn’t change a lightbulb??? You’re a pig.

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  153. wow….. just wow. you are a fucking idiot. you can suck a dick but cant change a lightbulb??

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  154. Your a special kind of stupid. That is all.

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  155. Ok your not right! Changing a light bulb is easy as hell. Take the damn lawnmower some place and have the blades replaced. Your husband is working his ass off to keep a roof over your head and food in the fridge and so you can stay home and this is how you show your appreciation! My hubby works out of town 28 days out and 4 home….learn to do shit on your own like I do. Appreciate the time he is home with him. You want to screw around…then leave him and honestly I hope he dumps your ass. I feel bad for your kids and your husband.

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  156. Hopefully if you divorce, he gets the kids and the lightbulbs

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  157. Jules Maria Jules Maria says:

    If you’re not working you do the chores. If you’re both working you split the tasks.

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  158. Damian Smith Damian Smith says:

    You are the fucking Devil Woman… what the hell is wrong with you? I plead that your husband finds out before you can tell him so he can kick your ass to the curb and take your kids from you, you’re getting what’s coming to you karma is a bitch. May you burn in the pits of hell that you deserve… seriously you’re a horrible fucking person…

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  159. You’re a piece of shit. Just tell him and pack your shit and leave with what you deserve… nothing! you dumb fucking whore.

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  160. Timothy Ryan Timothy Ryan says:

    Is this writer trolling? If this is real, do your family a favour and beat it you fuckin deadbeat. Your kids and hard working husband dont deserve trash like you. I feel especially bad for your kids, and hope they have more self respect then you when they are older.
    In the great words of Sam “Ace” Rothstien “Once a hooker, always a hooker”

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  161. You’re a disgusting pig who, apparently, doesn’t know how to change a damn light bulb. Go buy a new lawnmower and mow the damn lawn yourself! There are single parents who do just fine on their own and they DON’T have the luxury of a wealthy income. You better get yourself in check girl. Wow, just wow….

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  162. Barb Bakos Barb Bakos says:

    Whoever you are, you need to get a fucking life!! Find something that’s actually worth bitching about.
    Maybe you should get a job and then you wont have time to bitch and complain or be going around giving blowjobs to your neighbors!!!

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  163. I bet you all she’s doing more then just oral with him now!!!

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  164. Ungrateful undeserving whore.

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  165. Susan Taylor Susan Taylor says:

    My dad worked in town and didn’t do shit around the house or with us kids, ever. My mom had to learn how to do everything on her own, and that was before the internet and YouTube. My mom taught me how to use a drill and a table saw. You can figure all of these things out. Go out and buy a new lawnmower or take it to get fixed, if you can’t figure it out. Just less stress on you. And cheaper than a divorce. But you might as well tell your husband…your marriage is screwed no matter how you look at it.

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  166. So if it’s oral sex it’s not as bad???? That’s worse in my opinion. Seems more intimate. The guy is out working to support you and you cheat on him??! Selfish bitch.

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  167. You had me at oral!!

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  168. This is a fake post, right?

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  169. Shit bait is shit.

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  170. Angie Ransom Angie Ransom says:

    Wait….you cheated cause HE didn’t do what he was “supposed” to? Cuz he’s always gone?
    B*tch please.
    My man was gone 20-25 days a month. We(son and I) saw him 2-4 days every 2 weeks if we were lucky.
    Know who changed my light bulbs? I did.
    Know who fixed something/anything that was broken? I did.
    I did it all while he was gone and even while he was home and using his time with our son and family.
    It’s about working as a team 100%. There is no “my job” and “your job”…should be “our job”.
    On days he was home,he’d cook supper to give me break. When he was home,I’d be fixing or help build stuff that needs to be done.
    We work as a team.
    So no….you didn’t cheat cuz he wasn’t stepping up. You cheated cause you aren’t part of the team you should be part of.
    Get it straight. You’re a cheater,plain and simple. By your own doing.
    Tell the man,so he can move on and find the one that is part of his team 100%.

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  171. Kim Davis Kim Davis says:

    I choose to believe that this is a fake post, just to get a reaction out of people. Because really, who could be this selfish, self entitled, narcissistic, lazy, and stupid?!

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  172. “I’m married! I won’t have sex with you!”

    I’LL SUCK YOUR COCK, THOUGH!

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  173. Hahahaha…do your husband a huge favor and leave him…im sure there’s a nice respectable lady out there that will appreciate a hard working man lol

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  174. This must be a troll…you get mad when he spends time with the kids and family when home?????

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  175. Carlie Capes Carlie Capes says:

    Haha holy fuck, it’s not rocket science to change a light bulb and I’m 100% you have access to the money he makes so go to the fucking store and buy a new lawn mower yourself! These are NOT good reasons to fucking cheat on someone, you will never come up with a good enough reason or excuse as to why you cheated on him. You are a hoeeeeeeee and that’s about the ONLY reason. You need to tell him so he can move the fuck on and find a good girl who will appreciate the hard work he does in the field for 3 WEEKS.

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  176. So you gave a guy a blow job for repairs big deal let me know if you need more repairs lol

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  177. You did this all the while your children whom you created with this man were
    Sleeping away.
    That is just absolutely terrible

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  178. Kevin Burton Kevin Burton says:

    Another typical Alberta tramp. Oh go to work and make me money, why are you never home. He has to be out of town to make money, so you need to put on the big girl panties and take care of the home front. Also if he is doing 21 and 7, when he gets home HE IS TIRED, and needs some down time to recharge for the next run. As long as he is working when he is gone, and devoting his time home to you and the kids, that is what is important.

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  179. You didn’t know about the work thing going in? If it changed after marriage and kids, you didn’t discuss what expectations were? It’s a fucking light bulb. Change it. You don’t know where to buy a lawnmower? Google it. You don’t know that commitment means you keep your mouth and other parts to yourself? Never mind, you’re beyond hope. Have some respect for your husband, your family and yourself.

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  180. Suck it up princess. It’s not all about you! Be thankful he has a job. And start doing your part without bitching and cheating. Good god. Grab your balls. It’s a team effort lady

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  181. Judy Plant Judy Plant says:

    Are you effing kidding?!?! You are so lucky you get to stay home and do your own thing …he pays for you to,have this life you idiot!

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  182. Amanda Kerr Amanda Kerr says:

    You don’t know how to change a light bulb or buy a lawnmower? Kind of scary someone that stupid has children smh

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  183. Your a disgrace just disgusting you have a hard working man and it wasn’t enough… your disgusting

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  184. I desperately want this to be a troll post.

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  185. Omg you can’t change a light build or get the lawn mower fixed? Seriously ? What has this world come too? Your nasty!

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  186. Is this post even real??

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  187. Keri Martin Keri Martin says:

    My man works out of town and guess what? I try and do everything I can so when he’s home he doesn’t have things to do and has time with family and friends. Believe it or not it’s not all fun and games when they’re away working. I’m sure right now he loves busting his ass 12+ hr days in +30 weather. Why does he? So i can be home in my air conditioned house with the kids. The least I can do is change light bulbs and cut the grass! Yeah it’s “lonely” but news flash, it is for them too! The thought to cheat has never once crossed my mind. Why? Cuz i not only love him but respect him and the sacrifice he makes everyday out there. You’re disgusting and the reason so many of those men can’t trust women anymore. You hate him yet love looking at your bank account im sure….

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  188. Bronco Monk Bronco Monk says:

    wow! All i can fucking say. Your ass should be kicked to the curb.

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  189. This has to be fake…

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  190. Stephen Bell Stephen Bell says:

    I’ll take shit that didn’t happen for 500$

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  191. You cant change a lightbulb by yourself? Wtf

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  192. This has to be a trolling post. No way are woman this fragile nowadays. Get a fucking grip on your life if this is real. Change a lightbulb or two. And cut your grass. You’re a disgrace to all woman and I’ll be taking your wife card now

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  193. your a skank.Hope you at least brushed your teeth before you kissed him hello.

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  194. Steve Friske Steve Friske says:

    Lindsay Dykstra this is why your wifey material babe. You would never even think about this shit and you could fix a car yet alone a lawnmower.

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  195. Jessie Olson Jessie Olson says:

    Let me get this straight: You cheated on your hard working husband because he didn’t change a light bulb or fix the mower blade?! You ask me it sounds like you were just fishing for a reason to slut yourself out. Apparently you are a delicate little flower. How about getting off your ass and getting a job to keep yourself busy? Like most people. BTW you wouldn’t even get alimony cuz you cheated, not him. Boy you can’t fix stupid, not even with duct tape !

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  196. camp life sucks, hire a handy man cuz your man is making good money working away from home. dont tell him about your mistake, but tell him you need help and are going to get and PAY a handyman.

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  197. So YOU cheat on HIM and have the audacity to ask for alimony?!? Incredible. SMH. What a POS!

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  198. Joey Rae Joey Rae says:

    I wasn’t going to comment on this because most of you are saying what I’m thinking. But then I saw this.
    I hope your husband sees this post and knows it’s you. He deserves SO much better.

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  199. Join the club I hardly ever see my hubby I just make due until he is back in town again. Then he can take care of it. If it ‘s an emergency and you can’t do it yourself ask a family member, friend , or hire some one. I’ve had to do that in the last 14 years quite a few time. Don’t worry just support your hubby by taking care of things while he is out working to support your family. πŸ™‚

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  200. You selfish little bitch. He’s working out of town away from EVERYTHING sacrificing life and seeing his kids daily to support your useless fucking ass while your at home bitching and blowing the neighbor. Lawnmower broke? Try asking to borrow one from a neighbor instead. Hell of a lot less work to change your own fucking light bulb than it is sucking dick….

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  201. Amber May Amber May says:

    You cheated on your husband because he didn’t mow the lawn , or change the light bulbs? Are you serious?
    My husband works the same shifts , but is rarely home for more than 4-5 days. And when he is I’m just glad our son and I get to spend time with him. Go mow the lawn yourself like I do! And I’m highly allergic to grass. Get a chair and change your own light bulbs! What an ungrateful ditch pig you are

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  202. Yikes. My husband works the same rotation. I appreciate his sacrifices rather than hold them against him.

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  203. Wow, it’s not hard to get a mower delivered or call a service company to come fix it. While he’s out busting his ass for his family, you’re inviting the neighbour over?! Seriously lady, that’s messed up. It’s pretty awful that you don’t see the horrible person you are. If you’re that unhappy, get a divorce. Being shady and unfaithful is dispicable.

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  204. Mike Hamel Mike Hamel says:

    Your not worth the time and effort he puts in to bring home money

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  205. Amber May Amber May says:

    Stacey Furlong

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  206. Lori Hayes Lori Hayes says:

    I totally agree with you Heather McQueen!

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  207. Yup, you’re a pig

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  208. disgraceful, you dont deserve a hard working man, you deserve a big slap for what you did, wow, poor husband and kids, way to wreck your family, ho

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  209. Janice Cyre Janice Cyre says:

    why dont you be honest with yourself and admit your sexual desires overtook logic . dont blame all that other crap on why you did what you did . you were horny and you wanted sex and that whom ever he was just happened to be horny as well and he was there to service you . pretty much the picture you just painted in your vent and the label for you that comes to mind is sexual predator . learn to wait or get a good vibrator is my piece of advice and as for telling your husband choices and consequences so think it through carefully . .

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  210. Matt Stober Matt Stober says:

    How many whores does it taketo replace a lightbulb, cause apparently you cant.

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  211. Deb Dixon Deb Dixon says:

    My hope for you my dear is that you get what’s coming to you Like no money no home no kids nothing you are a piece of shit

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  212. He’s working to support you and his family. Shame on you. Not everyone is tough enough for that Kind of a lifestyle, but oral sex is still cheating FYI.

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  213. maybe leave him and find someone whos willing to do everything for you while you bitch on facebook about how they pay for your whole life…

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  214. Sarah Harvie Sarah Harvie says:

    YouTube is great for learning how to do things for yourself. I’m in the same boat but with four kids and newly moved to an acerage. It’s possible to figure out how to do this stuff yourself

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  215. Ricky Yu Ricky Yu says:

    Excuses, excuses. You should have had your husbands back and support him and be a better role model for your kids; not on your knees…

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  216. Oh poor you! Ever heard of changing a lightbulb or a lawnmower blade yourself? Be grateful for a good man who provides for his family. I hope you take care of him when he is home!

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  217. Tamara Roche Tamara Roche says:

    You go out and buy yourself a a battery operated mower, you do not fool around with a neighbour. Woman like you make the rest of us look bad ! Yes you tell him and take full responsibility and suffer any consequences

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  218. Taralee Anne Taralee Anne says:

    Just want to give a kudos to the men out there who support their families. It’s hard to be away from your wife and kids missing out on day to day bonding and time with them in order to provide. I’m sure it’s also hard to come home knowing you have limited time and have to choose between maintenance around the house or time with the children. Good for you for choosing the kids.

    Not everyone is blessed with this type of husband. Those who are should be grateful.

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  219. Hahahaha this has to be a troll

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  220. Tell him so he can leave your ass. What you get when you divorce won’t help your struggle being a single mom of two. You made that choice to cheat, so stop being a whore and tell him lol next time get off your lazy ass, change it yourself, and go buy one when he sends you money. Easy fix

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  221. I wouldn’t tell him. But you do need to look at your relationship and why this happened. Loneliness is a real thing and it can make you very depressed

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  222. How dumb are you ! You new what he does for a living – now could you do this !

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  223. Pay someone to mow the lawn? With money.

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  224. Pray for forgiveness.

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  225. You’re a skank.. a sorry excuse of a partner.. Your husband works 3 weeks out and brings the bacon home… you think this is an easy economy?, you think he enjoys being away from home? If you can’t hold the fort while he’s out providing for you you need to give your head a shake

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  226. I hope your children don’t turn out like you. Sounds to me like you’ve got it pretty damn good and you’re just too fucking spoiled to get off your lazy ass and do some labor. Do you ever stop and think about what he’s giving up when he leaves to work to support your pampered ass? He’s missing out on precious moments with his kids. Firsts and lasts he doesn’t see because he’s working his ass off for those moments to happen. Please divorce him so he can find a woman who will appreciate his hard work and sacrifices. You obviously don’t.

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  227. You stupid bitch! Women like you piss me the fuck off. You make me fucken sick!!

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  228. Gary Paul Gary Paul says:

    You GOTTA be puttin’ us on! Nobody could seriously say that shit. Straighten up!

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  229. Lisa Lutz Lisa Lutz says:

    Be grateful that you have a husband who pays for everything. He works hard to take care of his family…likely very long hours. He also sounds like a great dad.

    Cheating is never the answer. Sounds like you don’t respect what he DOES do for you and the kids. I bet he senses this.

    Why don’t you try completely fending for yourself for awhile? Move out with your 2 children, and don’t accept his money. How well will you make it work, having to be a single parent?

    It sounds to me like there is a lack of love & appreciation here.

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  230. Rhon Magyar Rhon Magyar says:

    You deserve the biggest kick up the ass anyone can give you! Utterly damn useless excuse for a woman! You don’t know how to put gas in a mower and pull the cord??? Learn!

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  231. Rhon Magyar Rhon Magyar says:

    This is why we pay the ndp to teach morons like this how to change a frigging light bulb. I truly hope you don’t breed.

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  232. Aimee Lauzon Aimee Lauzon says:

    ….. Are you seriously blaming your husband for your disloyalty?? He works his butt off to provide income for your family and your mad because he isn’t your handy man on the odd week he is home? You don’t deserve him. You’re basically calling him lazy on his time off. Sounds like you aren’t in love with your husband anymore. He deserves better.

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  233. It’s sounds like you are just trying to justify why you cheated on your husband.

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  234. Ashley Joe Ashley Joe says:

    Women like you make me sick. Hope he takes the kids and kicks your ass to the curb

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  235. You are a tool for sure!! Personally I feel you really need learn to use them though!! Never do I ever comment, but you sure take the cake &I couldn’t resist. My hubby works away 14/7, I personally am on medical ei but I STILL manage to cut the grass(hell of a lot of it too) house is always clean, I fix whatever is broken or breaks down(so he doesn’t have to do much on his days off but relax), I take care of the gardening, all outdoor chores, his children when here(with or without him home), cook, our animals, laundry and blaa blaa blaa. Oh and btw I don’t give any sob stories to my neighbors either. My s/o and I work together, share together, help each other out. You my dear should set your good man free so he can find a real women who will appreciate him and do all there is to help him and share all that needs to be done in a relationship. I don’t think you even realize just how hard it is to find a real good man, do you? All I have to add is (even though totally not right, but I feel you deserve it) he’s doing the same to you while working away. Do you think that will make it all easier for you to justify the loser behaviour of your cheating ways? Humm
    I feel sorry for you my dear

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  236. Liz Dubray Liz Dubray says:

    What you SHOULD tell your husband is that you are giving him the satisfaction of divorce so he can find someone who don’t whine and complain as much as you do! DO you know how many single mothers are out there with MORE kids than you and who do twice as much as your ass do? Some of them don’t even have the luxury of the father even being around at all period so they don’t even get a break from parenting for a day even. You need a reality check! Before you go out with that separated dad down your block, you might want to tell him what a spoiled little whiner you are too! Get a grip chick!

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  237. Man up ! You seriously can’t change a light bulb or replace a lawn mower !! You seem more concerned about changing a light bulb than fixing your marriage .. your an attention seeker clearly a hard working man ain’t good enough for you! If you loved him you wldnt b sucking someone else off .. if I was him I’d run far away from you as possible

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  238. Lissi Dolphy Lissi Dolphy says:

    Kizzy Cermak Lmao wow!!! Sheena St lol…she isnt serious

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  239. Sierra ッ Bownes Kayla Marie Goertzen “i cheated on my husband cuz he wasn’t home to change a lightbulb”

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  240. Omg -I’m not even going to be nice. Grow the fuck up you narcissist !! I have ZERO family here ….my husband was home 4-6 days s month and didn’t have that much time to do things around the house when was home -it’s called suck it up princess !! Get off your lazy ass and do it yourself !! “Didn’t have sex, just oral”-what is your damage?? Yes tell your husband -he deserves to know his wife is an unfaithful bitch. People like you need to have a good old fashioned ass whooping

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  241. This has to be made up. Also, if you used as much care with your BJ technique as you did with your spelling/grammar your neighbor got robbed.

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  242. Yes, you should tell him just so he knows what a piece of shit you are. Shame on you. Buy the way we didn’t get your name. Oh yes we did, lying, cheating, lazy bitch.

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  243. Bambi Lynne Bambi Lynne says:

    jesus christ woman ure lucky he plays with kids on time out…my time out after sweating my tits off for 3 weeks resulted on the couch for a week..whiney bitch

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  244. What a whore…thats all i gotta say…TRIFLIN!!!

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  245. Roy Callfad Roy Callfad says:

    Let’s see mow your lawn and get my dick sucked……pretty good deal you whore!

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  246. Maybe you should go out of town to work 3 weeks at a time and see how much you feel like doing around the house when you get home. He works his ass off so you can be a stay at home Mom with your kids and you thank him by cheating? WOW! You are a special kind of twat aren’t you? If it’s that easy for you to cheat you obviously don’t care much about your husband or your marriage and sure don’t deserve everything he gives you.

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  247. Wow, your some kind of poor girl who has to work for herself. 31 years I have bin doing this, taking care of a family and home while my Love is away. Get some balls and tell him so he can KICK YOU TO THE CURB! And find himself a loving caring Wife and Mother to support him and his life working away for YOU!

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  248. Kristin Negi Kristin Negi says:

    You’re an asshole. A serious asshole. Your husband is working to take care of your house, your children, your stupid ass and because he wouldn’t change some lightbulbs or replace the lawn mower you cheat on him? It seems you’re fit enough to fuck around on your husband.. so I’m guessing you’re capable of changing the damn lightbulbs yourself, you can replace the lawn mower yourself. You’re a woman not an invalid. GTFO.

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  249. You have a paid home. Your husband works. You have to take care of your kids. You bitch cause he doesn’t maintain your home… hmmm I used to cut my own grass, maintain my own home, and work 3 jobs. Paid for my house bills taxes etc. CHANGED MY OWN LIGHT BULBS!!! You had a fling with your neighbor. You really are an ungrateful bitch PERIOD! You threaten him with alimony? If I was your husband I would quit my job send you to work and have you pay me alimony, and child support,once I took away your custody of the kids. Then you would know what it means to work and pay for things instead of being so bz that you couldn’t change light bulbs and cut your grass, you sure made the time to be an all you can eat buffet for your neighbor though. It is women like you that I despise YOU give independent women like me a bad wrap. Do not call yourself a woman you are a spoiled little shit that is a class A bitch! Now go tell your husband and I hope he makes you pay for your stupid ignorant childish behavior. P.S hey dummy you have a real man, a good man! You are self absorbed broad. You don’t deserve him he is way too good for you! Once a tramp always a tramp!

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  250. Trish Down Trish Down says:

    Do you KNOW how many women would love a man like you have?! You bitches ruin men, and then when they finally do get out there again, they trust no one and those of us still looking for mr right pay the price. Thanks to all of you selfish two timing cows. Don’t forget to clean out his bank account and charge him monthly fees when YOU move on. WOW

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  251. Are you serious? Try getting off your ass and doing it yourself or ask friends and family for help! You have two kids, he is working to support you and them, not for fun. Did you consider that maybe he forgot?
    The neighbor who’s separated- gee I wonder why that is? Infidelity (cheating) is the lowest form of disrespect no matter if it’s a kiss or full blown sex and it includes oral. Infidelity means YOU won’t get alimony , and yes you’ll get child support, but you’ll have to pay your rent, bills, food, clothes, toys, fun etc on your own. Leave him. You don’t deserve him and he most definitely doesn’t deserve your bs.
    Women like you are the reason we have societal issues with trust, integrity and fidelity. Give your head a shake. If you can’t entertain yourself you don’t deserve to have anyone entertain you.

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  252. BULLSHIT … he should take his ass and his money out the door with him …. then you can really see what it’s like to be alone …. you make the rest of us OFW who are keeping the home lights burning strong for our men look bad !!
    There is no excuse EVER!!!

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  253. How do you not know how to change a light bulb? It’s one of the easiest things in the world to do.

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  254. Gail Duhamel Gail Duhamel says:

    Wow you are so very lucky to have a man like that your husband. At least u have someone to pay the bills. Not like some of us single parents. We are resourceful and learn to do things ourselves. How dare u complain .You are ungrateful. Walk a mile in my shoes sometimes . Then you would complain a hell of a lot more. You make me sic

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  255. Ever thought of being more appreciative and self sufficient. Get a job and help out so he can work less. Selfish B.

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  256. I would tell your husband. That’s a betrayal of trust and it’s evident that although you may still have a ring on your finger, you’re not in a relationship. He deserves to k ow so he can make a choice on whether he will stay. Also, your neighbour is an ass.

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  257. Shaw Marsh Shaw Marsh says:

    U already cheated so end it now u fucking whore

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  258. You are a piece of work. It is hard to believe that you have anything to complain about with all your bills paid, a husband who earns for you and your children, and even spends time with them when he is home. You reward him with infidelity and a level of ungratefulness one can only be ashamed of. Wow, just wow!

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  259. Lois Lesage Lois Lesage says:

    Wow , what an entitled whining bitch you are . Besides bringing up 3 children, held down a full time job , and teaching myself how to repair my car myself , because there was no such thing as YouTube or google , I would never have dreamed of cheating on my husband . I considered myself blessed if he made it home for 3 days a month .

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  260. Win Chan Win Chan says:

    Started in the oilfield when I was 19. I was fortunate enough over the years to be strong enough to get rid of anyone who had a problem with other men… or just being needy in general, especially when I was away. Only reason to this day my assets and happiness are still intact.

    Sometimes I get the odd suggestive phone call or text from a woman whose man isn’t making her happy- and that’s the only time I hear from them (pigs!!!) – but I just don’t talk to them as I know how the man must feel.

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  261. Le M Annn R Le M Annn R says:

    He deserves way better! Most people would love and be so proud to have a hard working family man, and a great father to their children. He works out of town to provide for your family. He wants to spend time with his family when he’s only home for a week…Let him be free to someone who will appreciate him. You made that very clear that you do not.

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  262. Shannon Roy Shannon Roy says:

    It’s a 50/50 thing and what do you think he does when he’s away you think it’s all rainbows and unicorns, he’s working his ass off so you don’t have to and so you can be home with the kids!
    I’m a woman and I work out of town and so does my old man, fortunately sometimes we get to work together but not always….maybe you could take the fucking lawnmower to a maintenance shop and learn how to change a lightbulb dumb dumb. Oral sex, your something else…using him working away as your excuse for your behavior, scum!

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  263. Wow. So much hate on a fake post. You all should be so proud. Living your perfect lives. Good for you.

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  264. LS Lau LS Lau says:

    You can’t change a light bulb? My son is 13 and he knows how… how old are you ? And you have two kids… what do you expect them to learn from you when it comes to house work ? At least your man is working and involved with the kids… You need to go back to your parents and learn how to change a lightbulb and not blow your neighbors dick!!

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  265. That’s plain nasty! Your husband is working like an animal to put you up in a nice home, bills paid and that is how you repay him? You should be used to him being away for those weeks but he makes up for his time away when he’s home. If you didn’t want to be in a situation like that you should have left him and go your way.

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  266. Shay Renay Shay Renay says:

    Wow. Just wow. I get that it must be very hard having him away for long stretches but he is working to provide for you and your family. I think he’d much rather spend time with you guys than “mow the lawn” Or change bulbs. It’s not a hard task. If You need help with your yard reach out to a friend or even a neighbor who doesn’t have a sexual agenda. Good lord.

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