Should I tell my husband my secret?
My husband works out of town 3 weeks on, 1 week off. While it’s grand having a paid home, bills and all, he’s never here to help with things around the house like hone maintenance and stuff. I take care of 2 kids by myself when he’s gone and when he’s home he spends time with the kids and his family, appointments etc. Like what a crock of crap!
He didn’t replace the lawn mower and change the light bulbs like he promised. Before you know it I’ll be using scissors to cut my lawn.
The neighbour a block away who’s separated from his wife asked me to go for drinks sometime but I said no because I’m married… but if he wanted to come ovet and help with housework because my husband is neglectful to household things when home, he could come by to help out. He did and one thing lead to another. I didn’t have sex with him, just oral sex.
I’m wondering if I should tell my husband and if so, how? Yes it was my screw up BUT I wouldn’t seek attention and help from others if he stepped up. Fixing light bulbs and a lawnmower blade is cheaper than the child support and alimony he will pay me if I leave. Ugh. Men