To the agnostic girl
*This is in response to: www.soyeg.club/asking-out-a-muslim
To the agnostic girl wanting to ask out a Muslim guy. Hang out as friends first, get to know him really and talk about everything.. you might realize you have everything that matters in common.
Me and my husband became foodies and movie buffs and when we talked, we’d get deep, and would talk about existentialism..we were just friends. I was agnostic, he was Muslim..but we fell in love and after getting to know his religion I actually fell in love with Islam too.
I wholeheartedly converted and we got married and we’ve been happily married for close to 15 years. But most importantly I never changed, or had to change, my core values and who I was. If he is willing to accept and love you for your true self then go for it, if not then it’s just not meant to be.
And yes I know you’re just talking about a crush and not marriage but with Muslim guys, good ones, they’re in it for the long haul.