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I want to cheat but I don’t

I love my fiance and he’s great. And here’s the but the sex sucks. I just don’t enjoy sex with him. Size wise he’s 5-6 inches not much grith but it does the job but yet it’s not good sex.

Before we had our son the sex was amazing, I wanted it all the time. Now it sometimes is good, I maybe want sex once every few weeks because it’s not great.

We have tried every kind of condom, lube, sex positions, porn… I just want great sex again and he not giving it to me!

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  1. He should dump you if this is how shallow you truly are.

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  2. Hmmm I want to shatter the life if my fiance and father of my child but I don’t. See how dumb that sounds?

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  3. why would you marry a man you plan on cheating on , this wont end good , I feel sorry for your man, move on

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  4. PM me I might be able to help

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  5. Brett Lahey Brett Lahey says:

    Do some keigels and tighten that shit up. It’s not his fault your tuna trap is so loose, people can scuba dive in it.

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  6. All couples go through slumps, it’s not a reason to cheat. I think it’s pretty terrible that you’re even considering it.

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  7. Maja Black Maja Black says:

    Honestly, Playboy has a fantastic video just for this. As a older lady I can say size truly doesn’t matter. It is all in the priming, the build up! They have a video called “Playboy’s art of sexual massage” there is almost no sex in it, it is all about touching the right way, good luck hun

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  8. I agree with the first comment. And maybe you’re the issue. !!!!

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  9. Hector King Hector King says:

    Well you came to the right place

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  10. Jenna Unrau Jenna Unrau says:

    It’s your hormones. Get stuff checked by doctor. Change pills, exercise…anything to get balanced again. Things really change after kids.

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  11. re: “I just want great sex again and he not giving it to me! ” And chances are you are not giving him great sex either. Great sex is more than physical. Great sex comes from having a great spiritual, emotional and physical bond with your partner. You need to rescue your relationship. Once it has been fixed the great sex will come again.

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  12. Ahh shit lust or love? what are you in it for? Fact when you meet someone it’s pure attraction then personality, but looks fade giving you a chance to know each other to love and cherish each other for what’s inside that is stronger then that lust when you and your partner get to know each other deeper you will find that love will overwhelm that lust ever break up with someone only to regret what you did that feeling off missing them your not thinking about sex you just want to be with them to talk to them just for a min just to see them for a min makes your day to even suggest cheating is to know your heart might not be in the same place anymore everybody will always get bored of there sex life but that goes for everything in life you do to much…I suggest if you cherish each other give each other time to breath time to miss each other however you wanna do it but trust me it works…if you love the guy.

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  13. Tanita Faye Tanita Faye says:

    Wow…. you are some kind of low life. Cheating is not ever OK and if sex is your main thing then leave him and start dating looking for what you need. But seriously this is so trashy saying I want to cheat but I don’t. How would you feel if he did it to you?? Marriage/relationship should never be all about sex. And if it’s that big of a deal just leave. People like you give good women a bad name!

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  14. Perhaps you should communicate with your fiancé and let him know how you are feeling! It’s hard to fix something if you don’t know there is an issue. He may think you are too tired and doesn’t want to bother you with real sex sessions and opts for quickie type scenarios. Talk to him, initiate sex, wear something sexy for him… it takes two to make sex great! Good luck.

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  15. Omg everyone is so mean here… including this poster….

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  16. It takes two …to have great sex…. someone can’t give you great sex

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  17. Get a full physical and maybe you have minor depression. Your body and hormones change big time after a baby.

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  18. Maybe your pussy became a big mess

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  19. Is it possible it’s not the sex? After having a child things change and become routine, you need to reconnect, go on dates, be spontaneous. I mean yeah you could cheat but it will mostly likely end up being the same thing after awhile.

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  20. mayb the mental connection isnt really ther . became routine . try romance things up. sometime ppl think kleshay idk sp . bt also look back on good things . thos times you had strong connections . try remeber not really relive bt remeber eachother . things tht made you fall in love.

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  21. Maybe talk to him…tell him what you want. If you cannot talk to your partner about sex you have larger issues.

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  22. Great…All the engaged men out there are now extra paranoid about whether their wife to be is cheating lol

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  23. People like this being deserve to be relationships. Clearly you lost the spark m. Mayne instead of cheating talk to your partner and bring back the spice in the bedroom

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  24. Candice Ball Candice Ball says:

    Lol ever think you are partially to blame ?

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  25. If your gonna cheat than leave him. If you gotta cheat than maybe he’s not the one. If you cheat you obviously don’t love the person enough and it’s a pretty slimey thing to do. Very snakish and wouldn’t you rather for someone to leave you instead of going behind your back and sleeping with other ppl. Put yourself in their shoes before you pull a snakish move like that.

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  26. Jocelyn Bear Jocelyn Bear says:

    Look for a third on the bedroom maybe? Invite the guy into your home instead of cheating lol

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  27. Leave him. So someone better can find him.

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  28. Buy a vibrator. If you don’t want to pay for all the batteries, get a rechargeable one. Everyone should have one.

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  29. Erin Saville Erin Saville says:

    I’m just throwing it out there that a lot of times there are more important things than sex. If you have a great relationship and trust and love that far outweighs sex. At least to me. It’s definitely not worth cheating over and ruining your relationship. Not only that, you have a kid!!! Way to go winner mother, cheating because YOU want great sex and willin to fuck up your relationship with your child’s father purely because YOU want something. Selfish.

    Listen to the people here and maybe work for what you want.

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  30. Win Chan Win Chan says:

    If you have to ask…

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  31. Sandy says:

    There are likely some hormonal issues – and bottom line – let’s say he cheated on you – because as someone said he’s probably not having a great time either. What would your gut reaction be? devastation? or meh, I wasn’t happy either. Let that gut reaction guide you. This relationship may be over and you haven’t admitted it. However, I really think you should get your hormones checked – could even be post-partum. Don’t do anything rash – get checked out – then if everything is ok – then examine what your feelings are in this relationship. Also consider – if this doesn’t change in 15 years – is that ok? If not – work on it together, if not fixable, leave. You’ll be much happier than being caught in infidelity (imagine your family, friends, coworkers finding out) – that’s the risk you are taking when you stray.

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  32. Either have an open relationship to get the sex you want or you should not be marrying this man. You’re doing it to yourself.

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