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What is an appropriate thing to do?

I am the OP of the post “I know I did the right thing, but why do I feel bad?” where I was feeling guilty because I waited 27 minutes to call 911.

It appeared to me that nobody has been back to the house, so I was taking care of their cats the best I could, leaving food and fresh water for them. the yards in this complex are fenced in. Last night a I came across a young woman there and when she saw me I told her why I was there.

After a few minutes chatting about the cats, and a bit about what happened she asked me if I was the one who called the 911, I said yeah, and she ran up to me, gave me a huge hug and sounded like she was about to cry as she simply said thank you quite a few times, So I asked her in a tactful way what happened.

She was surprisingly open and straight forward about what happened. I think she just wanted an ear to listen to her.

It turns out she doesn’t live there, but was house sitting for the owners. A casual acquaintance of hers raped her. The initial comotion I heard was after the first time from the sounds of it, he raped her a second time. Eventually she got a knife and slashed him. It sounds like she got him good because she mentioned there was blood everywhere.

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She doesn’t like going back to the house, but she checks in on the cats every now and then and said that’s why the kitchen window was left open. I told her if she ever needs help with the cats to let me or my wife know, unfortunately we can’t take the cats in; we have 4 of our own.

So onto my question for you all: My gut instinct is that I want to do something nice for her to remind her there is still good in this world, but I don’t want it to come across as a “congratulations for getting raped” gift. She appears to be late teens, more than half my age so I don’t want to give off a creepy old dude vibe. It doesn’t appear that she needs clothes or food, so clearly she has a home, either with her parents or is getting by on her own.

What is an appropriate thing to do here? I did tell her if she wants to talk, I pointed where my wife and I live and she can come by anytime; but I know she won’t. Am I best to just leave her be, or as my instinct wants to do offer her something, but even then, what would be appropriate?

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