What should I do.
Can you help me decide? I’ve been with my boyfriend for 18 months. He had a vacestomy done (no previous kids), he told me at the beginning of the relationship he was open to the idea to having a kid. We have been discussing buying a house together. When we were with his friends last Saturday and they mentioned a backyard you’ll need big enough for us having kids, he flat out decided he wasn’t having kids. Is he allowed to change his mind? I do plan on having a conversation in a few months about it, but I am on the fence about having another, that’s why I was ok with the he’s open to having kids- but to not even have a choice now makes me question- is it worth it continuing this relationship.